when i was asleep he pulled down my pj's and stuck his ck up my bum and pushed my face in the pillow, i was scared and he said he was mucking around but he seemed so violent and raged, what should i do
2007-05-23 23:11:48 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is actually a form of rape, he had no right in doing that. i would be worried, if he his only your boyfriend and doing this then if u stay with him want eles will he do (only mucking around) get away from him, you deserve much much better good luck
2007-05-23 23:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this does not sound like a relationship you should go with. There is nothing wrong with experimenting but both partners have to be in agreement and awake. It should be fun and exciting. It does not seem that this person considers your feelings at all and I am not sure that this type of behaviour can be forgiven. I would definitely get out of the relationship asap before anything worse happens----you have suffered enough try finding someone who is more caring and thoughtful
2007-05-23 23:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by njss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He definitely had no right whatsoever to do that and no right to scare you. That is just an excuse obviously. What will he do next whilst 'mucking around'? It is called rape and you could tell the Police if you wanted. Get away from him for God's sake.
2007-05-23 23:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
my bf dose this to me all the time but he dunt put it up my bum. i talk to him about it all the time and he says he will stop but he dunt he thinks im asleep all the time but im not im awake..... when i was younger was raped constantly from the age of 8 until i moved out at 18 and every bf i have had as done it its just what im supposed to be hear for that's wot my roll in life is its properly yours 2
2007-05-24 03:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by lil_donny_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my! In my opinion, he violated you! You should look for another guy. If he "seemed" violent and raged, then next time might be a living nightmare!! Get away for your own sake!
2007-05-23 23:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you did not consent, which you obviously didn't, then thats rape. Report him to the police - do you want to be with someone that would violate you in that way and then just say they were 'mucking around'.
2007-05-23 23:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes into rough sex! no seriously thats sooo disrespectful especially pushing your head into the pillow, what if you didnt like anal sex i think its wrong what hes done, if he wanted to suprise you when you were asleep he could have started kissing you then seen what happened from there, its up to you hun but i wouldnt be a happy gal if i were you ! x
2007-05-24 00:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by pussycat doll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong...that could be rape if you didnt agree to it!
you have to ask yourself why are you with this guy? i mean he had the nerve to do that to you. What he did was not normal he needs help and you need to get out of that relationship as quickly as possible before something else happens to you.
2007-05-23 23:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by <3Princess<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is disrespectful to you! The guy sounds like a slime, chuck him! But before you do make sure you kick him f**king hard in the nuts! Or when he's sleeping whack a dildo up his **** and see if the c**t likes it!
2007-05-23 23:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by Totty D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave his sorry a**! And fast! He assaulted you plain and simple. With his violence and rage, you don't know what he'll do the next time. He might physically hurt you as well as rape you violently.
Again, I say, leave his sorry a**!
2007-05-23 23:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋