Should I wait for true love or sleep around?

Answer 1

you do what you want to do .. dont let others try to tell you that what you are doing is wrong... if you want to sleep around then do it.. if not then dont

Answer 2

Seriously at the end of the day this is something you need to decide for yourself. In saying that it should be what feels right for you at the time. True love is not so easy to find especially when you are looking for it. Enjoy what you can while you can eventually Im sure you will find that true love you are after, but personally I would not sit around waiting you just dont know how long it will take. Just make sure you use your head and protect.

Answer 3

No one can tell you to wait or sleep around but if you do sleep around not only will you get a BAD reputation but you may also pick up an unwanted STD or STI. Make sure you or the guy wears a condom and always practice safer sex. I wouldn't recommned sleeping around but if you must then be protected and be prepared to be called names!!! If you do decide to wait for the one you love not only will you be giving him a special gift (your diamond) but you'll know you won't be giving him an STD! Sometimes I wish I waited to sleep with my "true love" but I did sleep with other men but I always used protection. Do what your heart tells you to.

P.S. If you do decide to sleep around you might feel that you did something dirty and not like yourself but if you wait until you truly love someone then sex isn't sex it's making love and it feels wonderful! Having a one night stand isn't satisfying, it's actually very dirty and you feel dirty whether you're male or female. If you truly respect yourself and have self esteem then you;d wait until you're in a relationship!

Edit* As long as you're mature enough to handle the consequences of sleeping around then do what you must but personally if you have any self esteem and self love you'll be in a relationship regardless of true love or not but all I say is be protected there's HIV that turns into AIDS, there's HERPES, WARTS just to name but a few and some of them can affect your fertility so if you caught something nasty then you might not be able to have a baby later in life when you've settled down.

Answer 4

Definitely wait for true love, he or she will come! Believe in it! It happened to me. Sleeping around can cause lots of problems! Not very good!

Answer 5

just have fun and when u see something that has potential, stick to it .

Of course, with sleeping around you have the disadvantage that, everyone knows you do it, so no one thinks about having something serious with you, and you could miss out on something good. Trying to find true love has the little disadvantage, that it's not that easy, and when you are looking for it, it doesn't show up.
It's disgusting, we should be assigned a partner for life when we are born, just like we get (generally anyway) a family

Answer 6

True love ain't waiting for you, so if you must then do it now not after your with your so call true love. You need to be true to your self before you can be true to some one else, provided there is a some one else in your future, wake up pal, women don't just line up on street corners
saying come and get it dinner's now being served, at least not the one's you don't pay . . .

Answer 7

If you sleep around the word will get out.
Comments guys use are "she,s a goer,open her legs for anyone"or "she,s a good f##k an cums good as well"
All these and many more are described to men for anyone who wants you,and if your up for it,then dont worry,they.l have you,as they say "you dont have to look at the face while yer pokin the fire,put a paper bag over her head,shes good thou".
It hurts but be prepared for it,but think of the man who will really want you for life,as he dont want to hear those sort of comments.
It happened to me when i was younger,my mates used to say those things about girls,and i would look at the girl and think"god she really like that"i used to think to myself,i,ll give her a miss if she,s like that.
I really really did fancy the girls i wanted but it really put me off.
The reason being that if your like that now ,what you gonna be like when yer married ,hmmm she might be off with some other guy while i,m at work.
I dont expect to marry a virgin,but its a bonus if you do,and you know if she,s "been around"by the way she has sex,men will notice or your man will.
By all means have 1 or 2,but dont go over the top.
Protect yourself as well,because its so easy to get halfway through it and think god he,s not got nothing on,because your both in such an emotional roller coaster you come off the rails sometime and thats when you crash...and hurt yerself.
Hope this helps.

Answer 8

Sleep around. Women love bad boys.

Answer 9

Would'nt it be nicer to wait for true love for someone who you can share your life with, have similar interests and really enjoy there company. why sleep around and then feel cheap for that it won't do anything for your self confidence and might even lessen your chances of meeting someone compatable. why not use the time you have now to gain knowledge, learn a skill and better your self and unexpectatly someone right for you will turn up.

Answer 10

Most of these people are going to tell you to sleep around and that is probably what you want to hear, but I've got to tell you that just about everyone I know has done that and regretted it at some point later. I didn't "sleep-around" much but I regret my previous partners. It really sucks when you've slept with someone and later you wished you didn't, trust me. It seems that some people don't regret it at all, or at least they never admit it. It depends on who you are. It's something you should give ALOT of thought.

Be careful, too, you wouldn't believe how easy it is to get an std, it could even happen your first time. Some people don't get many symptoms so they don't know they have them (for example, it is common for guys to carry hpv without having symptoms, and they could just keep spreading it indefinetely to lots of females without ever knowing what they've done, but all of those girls are now infected and at risk for cervical cancer, plus they will probably spread it on to many more people before they realize they're infected. Something to think about). It seems that people feel that if you just sleep with whoever whenever you feel like it, it isn't going to hurt anyone, but if you carry an std unknowingly, you will be hurting the person you sleep with, the people they will sleep with after you, and the people they will sleep with, and it never ends.

I also have to add that as a female, I always lost alot of respect for the guys who slept around, I couldn't usually get interested in a guy whom I knew had lots of partners. We like to think of humans as pure animals who should just mate with whoever, but we're different and we relate to each other differently than they do in so many different ways. Sex is a bigger thing than people think, there are alot of mental / spiritual / physical ramifications that can come with it (and you won't know that or believe it until after it's happened and you're feeling it and it's too late). and it's best done between 2 people seriously involved who love each other.

Answer 11

Wait as long you can for True love.