okay so me and this guy met on vacation. we had sex with eachother twice on a 9 day cruise. the other days we hung out with other people and didnt do anything at all, maybe kissed on the lips sometimes. we've been in contact for 8 months now and we live 4 hours away from eachother. i happen to be going to college near where he lives in 4 months. we've even seen eachother twice since after the cruise, one time for 20 minutes the other time for 3 hours, and nothing happened either time. recently, he called me and he was talking about how i never write him anymore on myspace and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"
is he just using me..or does he want to keep in contact for now, and then when i get there he wants a real relationship with me?
2007-05-23 15:31:49 · 9 answers · asked by alice i 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really have nothing to back this up with, but I would have to say that he has some real interest in you. Meeting someone on a cruise is nice, hooking up with them is great, and never seeing them again can lead to guilt free and exaggerated stories for you friends when you get home. I would have a hard time understanding why a guy would try to keep a 100+ mile relationship alive if he was just using you. That is a great effort for no real selfish benefit.
How easy would it have been for him to just walk away, ignore phone calls, delete emails or posts, and just down right forget you exist. Don't get me wrong, I don't know the whole story and I obviously don't know the guy, but he seems like he cares and truely would like to make something real come of this, or at least invest the time to see if there is potential for more.
Take it slow, but if you are interested I say take the chance.
2007-05-23 15:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want honesty? The real truth is, a long distance relationship is almost impossible to keep going. He will end up meeting someone new and so will you! If you care for him, keep contact but don't ignore the guys you are meeting now or soon will be.
2007-05-23 15:36:24 · answer #2 · answered by Fat Boy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is really interested in you he would be keeping up the contact with you constantly not just when it seems like you are going to be closer to him. I would sit back and see how things go. If he seems only interested in sex - drop him. If he actually puts an effort perhaps a relationship can develop.
2007-05-23 15:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by A J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will never have a real relatioship with him until he gets rid of his current girlfriend. You were just used on the boat for cheap sex. The reason you two haven't seen each other more (four hours away isn't that far), is he has trouble getting away to see you and getting away with it.
He is trying to keep you interested so he can be with you again, however it again will just be for sex. Hope you enjoyed it...
2007-05-23 15:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Well guys are really hard to figure out because they don't want to look like they are the ones in need. Well.. honestly, I don't believe in long distance relationships (becuase it didn't work out for me).
I think you should just keep this as a vacation fling. You'll find someone else.
2007-05-23 15:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 06:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be any number of things, but the fact is long distance is difficult. Hell, one of the guys I date only lives ten miles away, but we get so wrapped up in our immediate day-to-day lives that we go weeks without getting in touch. If you're going to be near him and want to give it a shot, go ahead. Whatever you decide, make sure it feels right to you.
2007-05-23 15:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody but him can give you an answer to that.
You'll just have to wait until you ove closer.
2007-05-23 15:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be keeping you on ice. Follow your instincts.
2007-05-23 15:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Yesugi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋