when i was born my mom hadent even finished collage yet she desided that she didnt like my dad anymore about a year after she had me and moved to texas all alone she aventuely marryed a guy for his money i was about ummm 4 at this time...this husbend i will call husbend #2 nad so husbend 2 desided to become an alcholic he would abuse me physicaly and mentaly he would push my mom off the bed and pull her arm out of socket and look at me and say "you didnt see that you understand me"he would throught things at me like glassess and gifts he had gotten one week my mom had left me thier he tryed to burn down the house while i was sleeping but i herd the smoke alarm and woke up....aventuely the state people told my mom that they would take me away frm her if she didnt devorede him so she did this wa baout in 2nd grade i was diagnosed with ADD in 3rd then in 4th my mom got me a baby sitter and i was always with her because my mom always traveled(still does always travel)and my babbysitter
2007-05-23 15:20:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
if i did she would hit me realy hard and she would clap everytime i did something wrong my mom didnt belive me when i told her what was happening but finaly in 5th grade she lissoned when the bruses where all over me that i wasnt allowed to go to gymnastics cause it was so bad...and now my mom is remarryed this guy is ok but he htinks he is my dad and he is not im in 9th grade now i want to kill myself but im not going to so dont say anything abou that plz
2007-05-23 15:22:06 · update #1
there is no question and im not being abused anymore i just want to make sure im realy not alone
2007-05-23 15:28:19 · update #2
my friends always talk about how fat they are and how perfect hier lives are and whe the next time thier going to go shopping thier extremely materialistic and svery immmature but i luve them
2007-05-23 15:29:49 · update #3
there are many things you can do to help yourself feel better about your life. One is I noticed that you made a few spelling and grammatical errors in your description. Maybe you can attend a night school and maybe get your high school education and build your self-esteem up a bit. I came from an abusive childhood as well, and know how bad it can hurt. No matter what has happened in your past, you have no control over that, but you do have control over your future. Make the best of it.
2007-05-23 15:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by sapphiresc3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry that you've had to handle so much crap so far in you life. I know what it's like because I had a really crappy relationship with my mom and stepfather too. But I can tell you that you life will get better, and that you have the potential to do so much with your life. I felt the same way you do at times, but somehow I knew that I didn't deserve all that crap. Now I'm 27 and have a very stable and wonderful life, I went to college, and now I'm back in school again to get a teaching certificate, so I can teach and be a positive influence to kids, especially those who come from unstable homes. Also in two months my wonderful fiance and I are going to get married. I'm not doing too bad for myself, considering my mother constantly told me I was stupid and a waste of a human life. You DO NOT deserve to be treated the way your mom and step fathers have treated you...please don't let them get you down. You can do great things with your life, if you can just get through the next few years...you've made it this far which means you're a fighter and you're resilient! Don't give up girl! I would be more than happy to talk with you if you leave your e mail address! Good Luck!
2007-05-23 22:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by JenJen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not alone. Many people survive abusive childhoods and then suffer depression and other problems afterwards. It's difficult to smile and play along when your friends are preoccupied with superficial things like shopping when you're hurting so deeply. Have you ever tried confiding in one of your close friends about what really goes on in your life? You may be pleasantly surprised by a newer, closer level of friendship. You may discover that some of your friends have also endured a rocky life like yours, and perhaps you could seek comfort in one another.
Either way, it sounds like you need somebody to talk to about all this. You're ready to share your story and talk about how your past plays into your present feelings about the world and yourself.
Some other Yahoo! Answers people have already suggested meeting with your school counselor, and I think that's a great start. That's what they're there for! It may seem a bit weird at first, but please consider it. You need a safe, sound adult to talk to.
Your a brave girl for sharing your story and reaching out for the help you deserve. Best wishes.
2007-05-23 23:43:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lilith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever see the movie "This Boy's Life"? Your life kind of reminds me of a combination of my life and that movie. My life has been much nicer. I never suffered from physical abuse, though my mother went through 3 husbands before she died. Husband #2 beat her though and she got a divorce on grounds of physical cruelty. We had a female body guard living in the house for a while with a shot gun. Anyway, this was all a long time ago. I still saw my real dad on weekends. He is still alive. I have a son of my own and a granddaughter. Somehow I made it through the tough parts.
You can too. If you don't have another family member you can trust to help you, do you have an adult you can trust? It could be a teacher, a friend of your mother who you could trust or a total stranger to your mom. Please go see the guidance counselor at school and ask them to refer you to a community run counseling service that is free. You don't have to tell your school anything other than you are depressed. The counselor must pledge to keep your words confidential.
Try to keep your grades up in school and take care of yourself.
2007-05-23 22:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That´s why I think some parents don´t deserve the blessings of parenthood. You are so brave for telling your story I´m sure that you´re giving more help than recieving. I´m so sorry for all this, I´m sorry for the mistakes we make as adults. God Bless you and may some day give you all the good things you deserve....You have a lot of friends here!! Don´t give up!
2007-05-23 22:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by jackielafemme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is very tragic when children do not have the parents that they need. I wish you could pick your parents but it's not possible. You are a victim and I pray you will never think any of this was due to your behavior. If you think you would be better off, there are good group homes that are parental placement which means it is voluntary. Please find a healthy person to talk to.
2007-05-23 22:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by TAT 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie get help. you need counseling. I'm sorry to hear that your life has been hell but you cannot live your life on what has happened to you in the past. Try surrounding yourself with emotionally healthy people it will boost you in a better and more happier atmosphere. Get a pet or something you can take care of it will help you. but most of all get help!!
2007-05-23 22:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by Nells 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not alone, my life story isn't nearly as shitty as that but your not alone, don't let whats happened in your past **** up your future, I know this sounds hard but you have to try to forget your past, I've gotten to the point where I've attempted suicide but was to scared to die, I've learned to deal with my problems and wait for the chance when I can be on my own again, I'm currently in 10th grade right now. if you need someone to talk to you can IM me at vegan girl90 or e-mail me at meatismurder90@yahoo.com I'll be there for you
2007-05-23 22:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by meatismurder90 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a very strong person to deal with so much in so short a time. please go talk to the school counselor and ask for help if that is something you feel comfortable doing. have you ever sat your mom down and talked to her about how you feel? There is help out there, if you feel you need it, seek it.
2007-05-23 22:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Peace/Love/Money 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, God is always there. You are almost an adult and then you can move out and make your own decisions. Good luck in the future.
2007-05-23 22:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by bikerpeace87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋