Okay, here is the deal. When ever me and My man have sex, he seems to be having a blast. But, i am really turend on, but..when he we have it, I dont find alot of pleasure. Well im not sure, i know i am turned on, but..its a feeling i get that I am not to sure of..weather i like it, or not. I make nosies and what not, to keep him all aroused. ^^ When ever he finishes he is sad because I never finish, ive never finished in my life, nor have I played with myself(I dont plan to) but I dont really mind. He is sad, and i find it rather cute, and I tell him not to worry about it, because, well, I dont mind not finishing.
I dont know if ive come close to, or...how it would feel like..
OH yes but when we had sex in the car, when I was on top, I think that was the first time I knew I liked it. It was only for a slight min or two, the sensation then left. I am wondering why.
But yes, please help, tell me why I am not sure, how do i know if I am about to ***, how does it like?
2007-05-23 15:15:42 · 9 answers · asked by Olivia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you need to be on top more often.
2007-05-23 15:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason it felt better when you were on top was because your clitoris was receiving more stimulation than if you had been in the missionary position.
Clitoral stimulation is necessary for a woman to have an orgasm. Most women find that they receive more clitoral stimulation on top than in missionary, and very few women climax from missionary position sex.
You really need to get over this inhibition about masturbation. If you masturbate, you will be able to figure out what will bring you to orgasm and will be better able to achieve it during sex with your partner. You will also be able to tell him how to stimulate you better.
Think of masturbation as a learning tool, not something to ewwww about. If by masturbating you are able to learn how to actually have an orgasm so you won't have to fake it during sex with your partner any longer, won't that be much more enjoyable?
2007-05-23 22:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going at a slower pace, or well, yea, when ur about to have an orgasm, STOP!! but continue so it feels on the verge of an orgasm, but isn't, tell ur man to also try and hold his orgasm. that way he can continue to have sex with you. Then slowly try to reach orgasm point, and when you want him to go faster, let him go slow, but hard, then he can gradually go faster and faster and you'll both reach an orgasm at the same time prolly (no guarantees though) and the orgasm will last really long, maybe a minute if ur lucky. The reason you liked it when you were on top was because you were that was in control and you knew which areas pleased you the most.
2007-05-23 22:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to know youd have to play with yourself. and to fix the sexual pleasure for you maybe you need to try different positions since you said that in the chair you felt something that felt nice
2007-05-23 22:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need clitoral stimulation, try fingering yourself to see what feels good, then ask him for oral sex oneday, its a sad lover who cant get his ladies rocks off with his tongue.
2007-05-23 22:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, girl, you will know when it happens. If you masturbate it would help you to find out how you like to be touched & then you can teach your man how to touch you. Then, voila!
2007-05-23 22:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Leena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll feel weak.
Might have a dizzy spell.
Tinglly all over.
2007-05-23 22:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by Leather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you like having sex in a strange way and not a rotine way.
2007-05-23 22:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time....find new things to do....diff moves....tell him to give u head before he enters to get you going. sooner or later your going to get off and your going to love it.
2007-05-23 22:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by randyplu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋