So we told him all about sex and stuff, now he's asking his girl friends to do it with him! What can we do now to stop him. He is 5.
2007-05-23 13:48:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Me an his dad are not married so I can't say only married people do it!
2007-05-23 14:02:35 · update #1
OMG!!! I'm not really sure what to tell you. I think that you might need to sit him down and talk to him more about it and let him know that it is only something a husband and wife do. The last thing you want is for him to say it in front of an adult and get CPS called on you! I know it was something completely innocent but other people hear that and they freak out.
Oh sorry about the marriage thing. Just say that it's something only grownups do.
2007-05-23 13:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by I smile because of them ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry i had to have a chuckle first, this has happened to me and my husband twice and yes people we id close the door, they also asked questions and we did tell them but we told them that is a small boy try's it he willy will fall off and will only grow back when he is in big school the same with my daughter we told her that her little one will grow shut and will only get it back when she is married. I know it sound stupid but it worked she is 7 now and still believed us. Good luck and yip don't we know the feeling of guilt
2007-05-24 04:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just curious. It is natural and normal. Simply tell him that sex is only for mommies and daddies and it is not nice to talk about it with his "girlfriends". Try not to make a big deal out of it, or it will make him even more curious. If he does mention it, try to change the subject or answer the question as simply as possible and then change the subject.
2007-05-23 20:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jen B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that grown ups do that. And that he c an get in trouble he asks his girlfriends. I don't really know what to say since we don't know exactly what you told him. Did you talk to him like a 5 year old or did you be blunt about everything?
2007-05-23 23:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by mabuisakura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I have to laugh, I'm sorry. Why not tell him that it is something special that people only do AFTER they can drive a car. Maybe that would help. Good luck. I'm 8 months pregnant and have had to do a lot of explaining to my 4-yr-old.
2007-05-23 20:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Momofthreeboys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he knows only married people have sex. Lock your door
2007-05-23 21:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by airforcemom79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that sex is a private thing that happens between two ppl who love each other and we have to be careful about talking about it with other ppl because they may be embarrased and it may offend them. BUt make it known that if he has questions he can talk to u or dad
2007-05-23 20:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it's something only mommies and daddies do, and he has to wait until he's married! See what happens.
2007-05-23 20:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by lexus 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him it's a special act between a mommy and a daddy. and little children cannot do it because bad things will happen. or something like that. it might work.
2007-05-23 20:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only adults do it and you have to graduate from high school first.
2007-05-24 00:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by noellemt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋