there's this guy that i really like. we've been having sex together. so anyways he's a big flirt and last night I asked him why does he flirt with other girls and he was like "I don't want a girlfriend right now" meaning that he doesn't want ME to be his girlfriend. why doesn't he just tell me so directly? why does he continue to call me even though i tell him not to? what is his problem and what should i do? i don't want to be used by him anymore so how do i get rid of him??????? is he playing with me???? or did he really mean it when he said he doesn't want a girlfriend right now?
2007-05-23 10:31:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey. He sees you as a booty call. Indeed he is playing you. He wants the best of both worlds. And you have been letting him.
He doesn't want a girlfriend, means he either thinks he is too good for you to be seen in public, OR he is a player and wants more than one. Either way HE MEANS WHAT HE SAYS.
He doesn't tell you directly because, well he has emotions. You guys have been dating in teh form of sex, he just refuses to acknowledge this, he does care for you, just a little and didn't say it directly to not hurt you.
He calls you cause he wants more booty. Do not pick up the phone. He will get the idea.
Do nto talk. As soon as you communicate yoru relationship will continue, whether ir flourishes or withers is all based on how you communicate.
HONEY, stay away. Self love, FIND a better male.
It is true, females are not emotionally stable to HAVE SEX without emotions.
2007-05-23 10:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. . Get rid of him. He will not stop his flirting. He keeps you on the side when he wants to have sex and can't get with anyone else. He is still looking around for other girls. He has pretty much told you that he would rather just keep it at casual sex. He will do it as long as you allow it. It's time to move on. He will never be what your wanting him to be.
2007-05-23 17:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to first stop having sex with him and move on. If he sees that you don't want to have anything to do with him then he might realize what he has lost and try to be your boyfriend. He is just really confused and doe sent know what he wants. So don't let him play you like a toy. And he probably just doesn't want a girlfriend. Maybe he just got out of a bad relationship you never know.
2007-05-23 17:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by LovelygalCA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says he doesn't want a girlfriend to you so you will keep having sex with him. He keeps calling you because you probably really like him and answer everytime. What im about to say may be hurtful but i feel like i need to level with you. It sounds like he has you on a hook and he can reel you in when ever he wants. Ask yourself this, if he called you up and wanted to date you exclusively you would say.... yes, in a heartbeat. This is why nice guys hate dick heads. Because they hook a lot of girls. Get it? Write this fool off. Godspeed
2007-05-23 17:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by repscottsdale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you as a girlfriend but you're easy because you sleep with him anyway, so he wants to keep you around for when he's hard up for a date.
If you want him to leave you alone, don't answer the phone when he calls and if he shows up at your door, tell him to go away, close and lock the door.
2007-05-23 17:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes flirting with other girls he only wants you for sex because youre giving it up. Stop giving it up and see if he sticks around. I guarantee he won't.
2007-05-23 17:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by pwnd! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop having sex with him :P
I know if i was single and a girl i dont want to date was willing to give it up without commitment then i would do the samething. I have in the past actually :}
2007-05-23 17:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by Pots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its takes too much energy to try to figure out someone else intentions. why bother? could be a number of reasons why he don't want a girl friend. why buy the cow when you get the milk for free. . you need to figure out what your intentions are..what do you want and what are you willing to settle for. dating is a game and we often get played just the way you are. especially when your young, guys want to do as many girls as they can. its so casual these days.
please use protection!!!
2007-05-23 17:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by MACK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a jerk. he just wants someone to sleep with and you apparently were what turned him on. If you wanted a relationship then you should have been up front with him in the beginning.
2007-05-23 17:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've already got the answer,obviously he is only playing around.Don't bother thinking about it or even talk to him,such a waste of time..
2007-05-23 17:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋