me and this guy named jake have been going out for 2 weeks now and last time we went out for 2 weeks and then he broke up with me because of another girl and then a week later we got back to geather how do i make sure he wont brake up with me again??
2007-05-23 10:20:55 · 14 answers · asked by brittney c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pshh I wouldn't even get back together with him. My guy dumped me and like two weeks later he was the one begging for me to come back to him. Haha, it was funny
2007-05-23 10:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a bunch of bull (once a cheater always a cheater) he didnt cheat on you! I have been cheated on and it sucked so much probably one of the hardest times in my life but i gave the guy another chance and we dated for a year and it is something i would never regret! the downside is you may constantly worried that he is going to leave you or that he may be hooking up behind your back...the best advice i could give you is that everyone screws up we were made to and it takes forgiving people to give them a second chance...make sure that he is sincere and try to figure out why you guys broke up the first time so it wont happen...give it a chance guard your heart for awhile though untill you feel like you can trust him again. There are those guys out there who dont care if they break your heart they are just in it for the satisfaction and there are others that dont really think before they do and make a huge mistake but thats the process of life...give him another chance and its ok to set boundaries...let him know if he leaves you or changes his mind he wont get you back again!!
Best of luck!
2007-05-23 10:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you will never know. Usually people who betray always seem to do it again. Some people can forgive and others cant. If you gave him a chance it's because you really like him, so you have to trust him again. But don't be blinded by the love. In a relation ship you have listen to your heart 50% and 50% to your brain. so that you are making a balance decision for your future. If you think 100% with your heart he will walk all over you. And if you think 100% with your brain your decision will have no love at all.
Re-evaluate your again relationship and do with with a 50-50 mentality!
Good luck
2007-05-23 10:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. You are a cheat and not to be trusted. You are hoping someone on here can give you a way out. There is no way out. Cheats never prosper. Maybe the answer is to tell him. he will be sad, but he will know what a rat you are. He would do well to get rid of you.
2016-04-01 04:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By not going out with him ever again until he's learned to be mature and loyal to his mate. He's already proved to you that he can't hold a girlfriend for a good amount of time. Don't let him fool you twice now. If he truly liked you, he wouldn't be trying to get with other girls.
2007-05-23 10:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be sure...ever. Some people think that marriage is sure, but more than 50% end in divorce. My advice is to enjoy being young and try not to limit yourself to just one guy until you are a bit older.
2007-05-23 10:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make him stay if he doesn't want to, and if he has cheated on you already you will have no trust in him anyway you will be paranoid when he is around other girls and to be honest its early days yet in your relationship you may find you can never trust him again
2007-05-23 10:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant be sure. but if you spend ur time worrying about it because then youll never be happy. enjoy the timeu have with him and if he breaks up with u again then deal with it and besides if he does break up with you again he doesnt deserve u anyway.
2007-05-23 10:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by DP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know that is the whole point of dating.But if you think he will do it again break-up with him.I know it`s hard but you have to do what your heart tells you to do no matter what your mind says.OK? GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-23 10:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by pretty pink pixie princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant be sure, if he done it once how can you be sure he wont do it again. sorry but i think your setting yourself up for a fall x
2007-05-23 10:25:18 · answer #10 · answered by lizjess2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋