why do people hate psychos and murderers and dont hate the people who made them so ( parents / friends / society / ... ) . why is that there are people whose destiny is to pay for other people 's mistakes all their lives ???
2007-05-23 10:19:25 · 15 answers · asked by egypt 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No body made them that way, they chose that path. You have to stop blaming everyone but yourself for the things you do wrong. There are many great people who have come from less than positive environments.
2007-05-23 10:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by QaHearts 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because people do not know how to separate the 'person' from the 'action'. Hate is an ugly word. Jesus teaches us to love one another (including our enemies), but we do NOT have to love or like the wrong(action,word or deed) that they've done. I do not believe in blaming the parents or anybody else for the 'psychos/murderers actions because they have/had a choice. It is true, their are people that are less fortunate to have good role models in their lives and this is sad. But the fact remains, we make our own choices..good or bad, right or wrong. Instead of using their parents/friends/society as a "reason" for them going in the wrong direction, why not let that be more of a reason to better themselves?
2007-05-23 17:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that others should get the blame for someone elses mistakes? I understand that events that happened in childhood and how you were raised affects the way that you ultimately are in adulthood, but to cast the blame and place hatred on the mother of a murderer or to say I cannot stand this society because of Jeffrey Dahmer or something is just wrong. What you can blame it on is the fact that noone noticed the signs of psychosis before it got to that point. What about the guy who shot up V.T.? Do we blame one individual person who did not get him into to see a counselor or do we cast blame on the whole? I think it is the whole, because one person did not see and on and on it went and NOBODY saw that this person had a problem, or they thought that the problem was not big enough for them to seek help. And so it is that way with others like him.
2007-05-23 17:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every person who is a psycho and murder is made that way because of their parents, friends, or society. Let's remember that some people have mental diseases that create these problems. Let's also remember that there are people who have been reached out to, yet they do not let someone reach to them. In other words, they pull themselves away from society and the help of others, thus creating a situation.
2007-05-23 17:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should hate anyone but I do agree that you other people that raised the person should be held responsible for what they have done but not what they friend, child, student, or what has chosen to do. We all have a choice in life even if your life sucked worse than anyone elses that still does not give you the right to kill! Even if you are "crazy" you still have a choice and sadly most make the wrong one!
2007-05-23 17:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful_Pancake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that there are some people who were not in a good place as a child. When we grow up we make our own decisions. Most people have bad stories of growing up that doesn't mean their fate is sealed. They make their future. There are children that had a carefree and wonderful life that turned out like some of those with bad childhoods. People make their own choices when they grow up! My parents always said: Excuses are like a##ho##s everyone's got one and no one wants to hear it.
2007-05-23 17:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by WRF 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a limit to putting the fault on someone else. You can't blame your mother for ever. At some point you became an adult and had the choice to become a fighter or a victim.
2007-05-23 17:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The phsycos and murderers didn't have to be that way. They could've changed (today must be "free will day".) Technically it IS their faults. But I would assume that a tiny bit of why they are/were they way they are/were is because of their upbringings. Some phsycos and murderers had very good childhoods, though.
2007-05-23 17:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Atticus Finch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They often do punish people who damage a person's Psyche enough to make that person commit a bad crime, however, punishing society is not a viable option, though sometimes it is certainly a correct option
2007-05-23 17:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make you do anything without YOUR permission.
You can choose love over hate despite your upbringing. Blame only serves to keep you stuck in a negative place.
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2007-05-23 17:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋