If you can only have an orgasm by thinking of two woman or you and another woman doing sexual acts with each other...does that make you bi-sexual or a lesbian?
I had a friend ask me that today and I think that it doesn't make you either.
What do you think? Help.
2007-05-23 09:41:09 · 25 answers · asked by scooby5_us 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not think that it does, but even if it did? Would it really matter?
2007-05-23 09:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of chicks (and even some guys) might think that's gross, but a lot of sexologists actually say it has nothing to do with you being a lesbian or a bi-sexual. Some people are more turned on by thinking of people of opposites sex sleeping together. It doesn't mean YOU'RE a bi-sexual/lesbian or that you might even do it. It's just somthing that gets you in the mood. It's not even likely that you'll do it. In my opinion I don't think so. Tell your friend not to feel bad.
2007-05-23 09:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Luvlee_Dreamer87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im bi and ofcoarse that makes her something if the only way she can have an orgasm is by thinking of two womens having sex well ovielsy . she needs to try it out and experiment and im almost sure she is gonna like it.
now about if she is a lesbian or bi i cant answer that she will only know after she trys it.
hope thats was a help.
2007-05-23 09:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by LIZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends. If you're fantasizing about having sex with a woman while having sex with a man because you're not enjoying sex with the man you're having sex with, you may have an issue you need to deal with. If you don't enjoy sex with a man, you probably are a lesbian. Otherwise, you could be bisexual and enjoy having both at once in a manner of speaking.
2007-05-24 16:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy-know the word? These are things that would not be nearly as good in the real world as they are in your head. Chances are-you are neither gay or bi. If that was the case you would have acted on it by now. These are merely thoughts that turn you on, and if you did them you may not like them. It is so natural for you to think these things, don't worry.
2007-05-23 09:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by MiMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. If you act on your thoughts, it may make you bi-sexual. But its what you feel you are-- what your choice is in a partner. If you choose to be with both sexes, i'd say bi-sexual. If you choose to only be with men, then your hetero, and women only-- homosexual/lesbian. Don't worry about labeling yourself.. Care about a person for who they are, not what they are. Good luck!
2007-05-23 09:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by brandysmile426 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bisexuality or lesbianism is a chemical response to the same gender(and the opposite for bi's as well). I doubt if you are either, but you might want to find out. We all have fantasies, that doesn't mean they transcend to real life.
2007-05-23 09:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs something to put them over that edge and I don't think it matters what you think of (just hopefully not another man or woman other than yours).
Sometimes if you have these thoughts you could be curious and want to test the waters- you never know until you try right?
2007-05-23 09:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I personally think that it doesn't make you a lesbian or bi. It just makes you a litlle curious. You don't become bi until you actually do the act. And I don't think your a lesbian until you do it and like it.....
2007-05-23 09:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by lillesbianajay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Maybe bi-curious, but there's really not enough "proof" to justify that you're lesbian or bi-sexual.
2007-05-26 13:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesbian , meaning you or her obviously likes girls because they cant have an orgasm otherwise
2007-05-23 09:44:23 · answer #11 · answered by Brandon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋