Help with guys.?

Question

Hey guys. Well. I don't care who answers this, wither it be guys or girls. But:
I REALLY love boys, like I really do. I can't explain it.
I've been single for about a year, and it drives me insane! xD
I really want someone who can hold me, and
care for me
someone to tell me they love me, and Rawrr!
Its so hard when I think about it, because it hurts me
Seriously!
I know this sounds stupid, but its true. I really can't stand
to be single. It makes me feel as if I'm...
unloved, and uncared for.
NOW:
I'm NOT a cheater. Thats not want I want. I just, want
someone to hold me close.
=[.

Any ideas on how to pass the time, without
thinking of relationships?

Contact me at:
www.myspace.com/adoreable_gurl

Answer 1

You are not stupid or crazy for having the feelings you said. After seeing your site, profile information, and the number of friends you have - I'm honestly amazed you would have those thoughts! There isn't some magical thing that makes the time or the lonliness pass - but let me offer this. 1) Don't go there 2) If you have to, bring lots of good friends/ good times 3) Trust in yourself/ a higher calling. You are young - you have lots of time. I'd consider you are in high school and most likely have a large group of friends or acquaintances. Don't think about being single. Think about all the good things you do have and be proud of who you are and who you are becoming. Hope is a great thing - without hope, dreams, or imagination - that would be boring as counting how many grains of sand there are in an hourglass! There is no problem or fault in hoping for that relationship to come. Don't put yourself in a position to think about it though: hang out with friends, get involved in school/ the community, etc (your someone could be there!). If you start thinking about it - do something to get your mind off of it. Take on a hobby, go for a walk/ exercise, etc - the great thing to do is surround yourself with friends/ family. Be greatful for them as they are an outstanding support in this area and life in general. Know that they care for you and love you - know that they most like have felt/ are now feeling the way you do. The greatest part/ thing to do is believe in yourself. Know that you are worth the wait - know and hope that your special someone will come along. Trust in a higher power (God, Jesus, Allah, fate - whatever you believe) helps in this to morally and spiritually give you support. Hold your head up high! Whatever you do - don't force the relationship to come - it will when it does. FYI - I'd help, but I'm too old according to the myspace page. Good luck!