ok me and this guy are totally into each other. but theres a problem. he wont unhook my bra or go any farther. i can tell he wants to but i think he thinks i dont want him to. he has got my shirt off so thats a start but PLEASE GUYS ONLY how can i hint him to go further?
2007-05-23 09:17:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take off your own bra and show him there are no barriers... you might want to take off your panties too... :D
2007-05-23 09:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-18 09:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has your shirt off I don't know why he doesn't unhook it. I'm assuming inexperience and doesn't want to be embarassed if he can't. Or he could respect you and not force you to do anything you don't want. However since he has your shirt off and just won't go further un-hook it yourself. If you don't want to do that, then I'm sorry but I think you're too young to be doing that anyways.
2007-05-23 09:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I'm not a guy but the answer is too easy....
TAKE IT OFF YOURSELF!!!! DUH!!!
Look, I love shy guys so I know what you are talking about and I can't stand pushy guys who go too fast. So, what I do is something extreme to blow their minds. What makes you think that only the guy can make the first move anyway. It's not the stone age anymore. Go fo it.
2007-05-23 09:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're ready to go further then you should be able to communicate the need for him to take off your top and bra.
If you feel you cannot ask for that then you should not be going any further.
2007-05-23 09:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the bra off yourself and then bend down and talk off his pants. He should get the message by this point.
2007-05-23 09:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by SPORTS GUY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unhook the bra for him and if that doesn't help, tell him what you really want.
2007-05-23 09:23:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move his hand where you want him.
Be careful, though...know how far you want to go. Even if you trust each other, can you trust yourself not to keep going? Think of the consequences. I know you think you have a handle on things, but they do feel good and you can easily slip.
2007-05-23 09:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
While kissing, gently take his hand and guide it in front of your bra, so he can feel your nipple. This is when he'll know it's okay.
2007-05-23 09:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initiate something. Coyly slide his hand places, and he should hopefully get the hint.
2007-05-23 09:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by jadeeyedgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont hint.Tell him strait out how you fell. Without trust and honesty nothings possible.
2007-05-23 09:20:30 · answer #11 · answered by REPORTED 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋