If this person is so attractive, and can't stop thinking about the person ? I have a girlfriend and my co work is so hot. But just want to be friends with him, and yes I'm staight as an arrow!
2007-05-23 09:16:51 · 20 answers · asked by doubleclick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont worry dude.. it is normal for every person to get attracted to another person of the same sex atleast once in lifetime. Its just upto u to decide how attracted u are to someone and do u really think u should approach them ?
2007-05-31 08:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by HiddenSurvival 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were so straight why again would you think this person is so attractive and can't stop thinking about that person? I mean I can think a girl is so attractive, but doesn't mean I always think about her.... It's not the fact that you think this person is attractive that makes me question, it's the fact that you said you "can't" stop thinking about the person? I mean you said you want to be friends with him, but you don't even know this person and you already think about him? What are you thinking about? If you are straight as an arrow now, I wonder what you will be when you are "FRIENDS" with him and why hit on? I wouldn't hit on my friends and I'm a girl, and you're a man, so that should be even worse for you. Don't be stupid. We ain't stupid, you can't fool us. Stay away from this dude and yes it is wrong for a straight person to hit on a gay person.
2007-05-23 16:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit confused mate, are you sure you know what you feel for this 'person'? is it a missplace sence of admiration? Do you just respect them a lot and kind dont know how to show it?
In a word yes it is wrong if you realy don't feel that way about them. But useualy 'hot' and 'sexy' arn't a way to describe some one you want to be just friends with.
2007-05-23 16:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by ben_m_g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are straight as an arrow if you want to 'hit' on your male co-worker.
If you wanted to be friends with him, suggest beer or something, but hitting on him will definitely not make him your friend (unless you mean 'friend').
2007-05-31 13:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that would be wrong is if you are doing something for someone other then yourself. If you truly like this person, then there is nothing wrong with being his friend. You just have to get passed this issue in your own head. Do what feels right to you. Enjoy life.
bob
2007-05-23 16:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Dragonlair 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are curious. I think all people wonder somewhere deep inside what it would be like to be with the same sex. As long as you don't act on it...it's just a fantasy. That does not mean you are gay.
2007-05-23 16:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It completly is wrong. Coming from the point of view of the 'gay' (bi, for me), it's really awful...your co worker could think your hott, too, and your leading him on! He's gunna be really upset so I think it's mean of you. I'm not saying your mean, but it's upsetting when that happens. You can be his friend, but don't try anything more. You'll end up hurting him.
2007-05-23 16:20:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you are gay! If u are attracted to your own sex thats the definition of a bi person with a girlfriend. Dont be in denial!
2007-05-23 16:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It isn't wrong but it seems pointless! It is common for straight people to be attracted to gay people...but hitting on people who are not into you.
2007-05-23 16:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ain't gay then your bi. Because someone thats straight wont even think of hitting an a gay person.....
2007-05-31 15:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋