Ok so my BEST friend has a really hot cousin. And I like him ALOT, I think he likes me too. Is it using her if I ask her to hook us up? I feel guilty about asking her too. But he is a coach for track and he was at my brother's baseball game. He got hit it the head with a foul ball and then we started talking, but I couldn't talk because my dad was right there and he is big and scary. What should I do?
2007-05-23 08:43:30 · 9 answers · asked by ambie_1014 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No! it's not wrong - I'm sure your friend wants the best for you and she can give you heads up on his personality, what he likes etc... So, don't feel quilty, and if your best friend says well I'm not sure If I want to hook you both up - just respect that and leave it alone. Someone will come your way.
2007-05-23 08:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are great in situations like this and I don't think it's using her at all. Using her would be to get her to hook you guys up and then dumping her as your friend. Since this is not the case, I say go for it. If you still don't feel comfortable asking her, why not just approach him on your own? That way, your friend is not involved and you get the guy and everyone's happy. Good luck.
2007-05-23 08:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your best friend how she would feel if you and her cousin ever hooked up? If she gives you the green light, then ask her for a little help. I am sure that she would do it considering she is your best friend and all.
2007-05-23 08:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by kissbutnevertell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a coach and your father is so scary may be your to young for him. Think about that for a spell. If you still feel you would like to get to know him better: ask your friend if it would make her feel put out if she were to help you two get to getter, and go from there.
2007-05-23 08:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure why not, just remeber if u guys end up dating not to get her involved bc that her family and ur her friend and she doesnt want to give advice or take sides. so tell her if she could hook u up u wouldnt involve her in all the other trivaial stuff! but stick to your word!
2007-05-23 08:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's really your best friend, she'll be happy to hook you up with her cousin. All best friends want to be sisters. ( or cousins-in -law)
2007-05-23 08:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Christina D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not wrong to ask. But if she says no then dont push her. Or you can just do it yourself. Most guys like that in a girl and it shows confidence. Go for it!!!!
2007-05-23 08:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that you like her cousin
2007-05-23 08:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Nocurfew313 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your friend to help
2007-05-23 08:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by CEZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋