there is this guy who asked me out first b/c he thought i was cute, but i said no, i don't date, and he asked me again another day, and i said no again and the third time he said "you know we're gonna get married right?", i thought that was kinda strange but anyways, like 2 weeks later, he doesn't try to talk to me anymore, and i saw him huggin a girl, i'm pretty sure that was in a friendly way, but i felt a tiny bit of jealousy, and i know that i don't like him at all, Don't you think that's weird?
2007-05-23 08:43:09 · 66 answers · asked by I ♥ me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That makes you female
2007-05-23 08:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Bigglesworth 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No it isnt weird, you did have the attention of him, and in some way you enjoyed it, making you human. YOu may not have dated him, but you still had the feelings that he was somewhat yours, especially after his crazy claim about getting married. I know you said you dont date, but try it some time, and you'll see the type of people you enjoy being with and the others you dont. It doesnt make you weird, it makes you a female and human!
2007-05-23 08:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't really say if your weird or not, but I think you like him. Maybe just a little, but you still do. I think the guy was trying to make you jealous by hugging another girl. A lot of guys do that.
2007-05-23 08:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by aqua_dragon12321 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not to weird. You don't want him, but you enjoyed the attention in a small way. So seeing him with another gal took a little of the sparkle away, but you still don't want to date him. Had a couple gals hit on me before and that type of situation happened to me.
2007-05-23 08:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No that always happened to me when I was younger, you arent weird you just like the attention he gave you. and when he gave someone else attention, you felt jealous because a part of you misses that attention- even if you dont like the guy
there are many different forms of jealousy
2007-05-23 08:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well your in luck, from what I understand these days there are quite a few very good psychologists i'm sure if you start searching right away, by this time next year you might find one willing to try to help you.
2007-05-23 08:51:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you found it flattering that he liked you and are jealous that he's moved now. If you do like him, let him know and ask HIM out. If you're just jealous because you aren't getting the attention anymore, then leave him be and get a puppy.
2007-05-23 08:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not wierd at all. it is human nature to want to feel pursued and actually enjoy it! you felt a bit of jealousy only because sub-conciously your brain was telling you...."oh, you let another one slip by" or it may be that you just liked the attention and there will be plenty more of lifes experiences that will fulfill that need.
2007-05-23 08:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by jenni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it sounds like almost every woman I've ever met. Even if she doesn't want someone or something, if she had the chance to have it or them once upon a time and it or them are good, then she doesn't relish it when someone else snatches them up. They constantly seem to have a "I could have been the one" mentality.
2007-05-23 08:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you don't like him like that it is still flatering for him to like you. So when he was hugging another girl and had stopped giving you all that attention it made you jealous because it felt good to have it, not necessarily because you wanted HIM just he attention. It makes a girl feel good.
2007-05-23 08:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want revenge, marry him. Live a happy life for 10 years and then whisper to him, "You know we're gonna get divorced, right?" Then make his life a living hell for hugging that girl....that friendly hugging girl....
2007-05-23 08:49:22 · answer #11 · answered by bei j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋