When i was with my last guy he told me he used to fantisize over me when he pleasured himself but anyway he asked me if i was disgusted? but why did he used to do it while thinking of me? and should i have been disgusted?(i know its my ex lol but i was just wondering)
2007-05-23 08:16:10 · 32 answers · asked by juicyx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
id take it as a compliment..
your that sexyyyy =]
2007-05-23 08:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by hehe =] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the thought of this doesn't make you disgusted striaght away then it may not be at all that disgusting This guy thought of you. other men use books for stimulation or think of a movie star he did this thinking of you. in some way you could feel flattered. My guess is that if you were with him at he times you were away from each other well say no more. Only you know if its a turn off to you its a personal choice He did this thinking of you because quite simply you aroused him and he thinks a lot of you .
2007-05-23 08:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal to fantasise about some one you fancy or you secretly like i do it all the time i fantasise about men who i fancy but cant have or you cant see a future with.
So don't be disgusted because as long as these fantasies are healthy and legal it is perfectly normal.
May be you could try to persuade him to meet up with you for a drink and ask him whether he wants the fantasy he has to be reality with you?that way you may still be in with a chance
2007-05-23 08:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That he did it is definitely normal. That he told you is rather odd. Disgusting? No, not really. I guess it is a matter of opinion, but if it really is disgusting, then 99% of all men are disgusting. What can I say?
2007-05-23 08:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You definately shouldn't feel disgusted about it, I would take it as a compliment if I were you. Of all the people that he could choose to fantasise about and he chooses you! Good work girl! x
2007-05-23 08:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats normal....thats certainly a compliment! that he still thinks of you (maybe not in a lovey dovey way) but he thinks of you and its good that you can still get someone to pleasure themselves over you!!
if i wasn't with my man, he wouldn't be pleasuring over me!
Love Jess
x
2007-05-23 08:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK. He was probably just trying to give Pamela Anderson Lee the weekend off.
2007-05-23 08:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal.
2007-05-23 10:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is completely normal. he likes you and he choose you to fantasise over. my boyfriend does the same think. even some ex bfs of mine do it thinking of me. you should not be disgusted.
2007-05-23 08:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by veceras 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for a guy to fantizie about you. It was better you than some other girl to be honest. Since he is your ex you are to good for him.
2007-05-23 08:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by critterbeachhome 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably thinks you would be grossed out over the idea of pleasuring himself to your image....it might freak some people...., but in reality its a compliment...because you are sexy enough to get the job done..
2007-05-23 08:21:35 · answer #11 · answered by Katana1971 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋