will i ever find another? when will i meet her? we were going to be together forever
2007-05-23 07:57:01 · 15 answers · asked by sarge 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i cant choose between brenda and zipper
2007-05-23 11:57:38 · update #1
I lost my soul mate 10 yrs ago. He was only 36 and died from a heart attack. It took me a very long time to heal from this great loss in my life but I remarried 7 years ago and I am very happy. My first husband will always be in my heart but I have a big enough heart that I have allowed someone else in. It will happen for you too. I promise :-) Take care.
2007-05-23 08:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by tn2vegas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get more then one. I know, I have several. They are all platonic friends, but I know we've been together before and will continue to be together.
Here is proof. Most people have a best friend. Nothing sexual, but they just click. (soulmate), then you meet another and fall in love. (and your sure this is the only one) than you have a child and wonder who you can love someone as much as you love your soulmate (because you've found another). And unfortunately, sometimes your soulmate dies and goes ahead to tidy things up for your eventual arrival. But your friend is still there and so is your child and once you get over the loss, you find someone else that you love as much, maybe in a different way.
You'll meet her when you are ready and not a moment sooner. When your life is full again aithout a soulmate. And forever is a long time, not all of it will be here. If you believe in soul mates, then you probably believe in life after death. All your soul mates are there or here and you have all been together forever. some of them are closer, some further away, but you aren't alone in the universe.
read the Richard Bach Books - Jonathan Livingston Seagull bridge over forever, Illusions - all of them and I think they will give you some comfort.
I'm sorry for your loss, but rememeber it's only temporary
2007-05-23 15:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so very sorry for your loss.
While god says that when 2 people marry they become one person, he also says that in heaven there will be no male or female for we will be like the angels. That means that bond that you shared with your spouse will never be broken. it also means that we will love others in heaven with the same dedication as we love our soulmates with.
It is not wrong to move on later. Such is life. It wouldnt be adultery if you found another person. Keep greiving if it pleases you, but know that your spouse is with god and she is happier up there at this moment, than you both could ever be down here.
2007-05-23 15:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by jennjenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how long you were to getter, so I am assuming a long time here. You may never know another or you could fine them to marrow. No one knows that answer I'm afraid. All I can tell you is be happy in what you had, and remember the good times as well as the bad. Many people never fine a soulmate at all: your one of the lucky ones.
2007-05-23 15:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by zipper 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be I still have not met him. But a year ago I met some guy I felt he was my soulmate.... really i felt that...But he is gone...not dead... but gone forno reason...
I am confused about that and I don't know if soulmates would leave eachother... I thought the time they meet they will be together forever.....
Peace
2007-05-23 15:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by Eve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that God may send someone else. It has happened before. Now is a good time to get closer to the Lord. Seek His will in this matter. Also know that, even if you never meet someone else, the Lord is really all you'll ever need. He will sustain your spirit.
2007-05-23 15:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by †Lawrence R† 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I lost my soul mate in a house fire 23 years ago I have come to except it but have not found anyone that I could love
2014-09-08 07:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by Darlene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there can be more than one soulmate...
Open yourself up to love others...it may be hard at first...
2007-05-23 14:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by G.C. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might and then you might not. There needs to be a grieving time though before you try again...
2007-05-23 15:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally dont believe in soul mates.. but i believe that there are many people that we could have capable relationships with.
2007-05-23 15:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by Loathing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋