me and him broke up 4 months ago...i know for a fact im not even close to being over him. we still talk and text almost everynight....he even drunk texted me telling me he loves me still.
the reason we broke up, was because he wanted to explore his options. and that he is scared of commiting at such a young age... we are 18 years old and i know i want to be with him. he said the same thing when we were dating...but i know he got scared. but since we broke up 4 months ago, we've hooked up 6 times......why is he doing this too me?? does he really love me? i saw him the other day and we hung out,,,it wasnt akward at all, it felt like we still were together....i miss him all the time and i tell him this when i feel that way....is this somthing i should be still telling him?? i know deep down he still cares about me, he told me this recently, but he just doesnt want to be with me...what do i do????
2007-05-23 07:00:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may care about you but if he doesn't want to commit then FORGET this relationship. He will keep coming around because he is lonely but he will probably never commit because he wants to have fun (at 18 I can understand). I know this sounds hard but let him go and don't let him back into your life or you WILL get hurt. I ashamed to admit I was this guy and you are guaranteed to get hurt. If he doesn't want to commit then you are asking to get hurt. There are plenty of guys out there. Many want to commit. Find one of them. If he does a 180 and decides you are the one for him then fine. But be absolutely sure that he's not just pulling your leg to get some.
2007-05-23 07:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by ok4u2bfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.... i know how you feel. i really do. well lets see.... i think you should tell him how you feel because who knows, he might realize that he still loves you to, but if he's one of those jerks who dont care then if you tell him how you feel then he might do everything possible to make sure you get jelous. and if that happens then you show him that two can play the same game. but if you know you still love him then fight to get him back, just know that your not going to be running after him forever, either he wants you or not. you have a life and if he doesnt want to commit then find someone who does. hope it works out for yall and hopefully my advice helps you!!!
2007-05-23 07:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by .::jacky::. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing mind games, what do you expect? You tell him it's over and yet you expect a different response. You told him it was OVER, and now he is treating you like its OVER. Why would you expect different? Stop playing mind games! Say what you mean, and mean what you say, ALL THE TIME otherwise, you will never have a man stick around for long! You want him back now so you tell him, tell him you are sorry for playing mind games and if you want him to show you that he loves you more then TELL HIM!
2016-05-20 23:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can be very changeable. But just because you have 'hooked up' doesn't mean a thing (I assume you mean you've had sex). Guys will have sex with any woman they find attractive, even if they can't stand to be around them a lot. Sex isn't a committment to most guys, it's a fun activity. So he comes back for that fun, not for you as a girlfriend.
2007-05-23 07:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are so young. I call this puppy love. You know how many guys you are going to meet? You know how many women he is going to meet? This is just one of those things that happens in young relationships.
2007-05-23 07:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Madrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep banging him untill he realizes he wants to be with you.
2007-05-23 07:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋