GIRLS AND GUYS: If you were a late bloomer when it came to relationships and you didn't get your first bf or gf until you were 18, 19, or 20 and beyond what did your first bf or gf say about you not having a relationship before? Did they care? Did they even ask and if they did what did you tell them? Do people really care about past relationships?
2007-05-23 06:59:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really wouldnt care why he didnt have a girlfriend before. many ppl have their different reasons as to why they chose to not date at an earlier age. besides, relationships in high school and before are rarely lasting and really don't matter to ppl the minute they step into the "college" or "university" state.
2007-05-23 07:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by czerny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People care about the lack of past relationships. Trust me on this. If your a persons first bf/gf then you instantly know you matter. No matter how it turns out, you know you mean something to that person because you were first. And that thought can give you the drive to go above and beyond, because NO ONE wants to be remembered as the first loser...
2007-05-23 07:04:28 · answer #2 · answered by Supaboy Kaotik D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep I am 19...I will be 20 next month...still have yet to have a boyfriend. My friend was 18 when she had her first boyfriend...he was 25 and he didnt care that she had never had a boyfriend. My other friend was also 18 when she dated a 26 year old. By 19 she had his baby and were married together. He was her first boyfriend...and the man she married. It doesn;t really matter
2007-05-23 07:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i comprehend. If the guy hit the girl first that's adverse, beat his butt. If the girl hit the guy first....eh. It extremely does all stem lower back to the full men being extra advantageous,extra advantageous,extra durable,in spite of the fact that. yet. If human beings did no longer observe yet, looks are very deceiving. the girl may well be a ninja murderer for god's sake and attempting to slice the undesirable guy in 0.5 yet anybody is like...do no longer hit her!!! i'm extremely sorry on the subject of the double common fellas, i actually am.i did no longer lead them to. i'm a woman too and regrettably fought some boys before. i'm no longer happy with it in any respect because of the fact they weren't quickly in any respect. They hit troublesome. confident. yet they weren't able to snatch me. in addition all of them started it, I in no way start up something with all and sundry and sense such as you may desire to look after your self against all and sundry prepared to violate your very own area.OR get some friends of an identical gender as your attacker and have them kick their butt for you. that's what I did while different incidents like that got here approximately. you do no longer might desire to hunch to their point the two.
2016-11-05 03:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think past relationships can help shape who you are, but also not having them can help shape you as well.
Be open, be willing to be vulnerable, and put yourself out there. Communicate!! Communicate!! Communicate!!
I would share that about your past expereice just to give the person a better persepctive on you, in the long run it will be better. Going into it being up front and honest will be a bonus!!
Good Luck!!
2007-05-23 07:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by MICH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they dont care...I was a late bloomer myself!
Dont worry about it...be yourself...have fun and accept yourself for being different ^^
If someone try to ridicule you, then that person is NOT a very nice person and you know that you shouldnt hang around him/her.
Good Luck & God Bless
2007-05-23 07:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by deliah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated around a lot in High School. Never really had an actual girlfriend until I was 19. I told her just that...that I dated a lot of people in HS, and never had one girlfriend.
2007-05-23 07:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by togashiyokuni2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think guys/girls will only get jealous about past bf/gf and my now husband didnt mind that he was my first bf ive ever had and i was nearly 22 at the time i think they apreciate you more that you havent been sleeping around with anyone and glad that he/she is your first
2007-05-23 07:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't a big thing but it made her day when I first told her she was my first. This happened when I was 18 and in high school.
2007-05-23 07:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by victor l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in early 50's and never had a gf/bf
2007-05-23 07:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋