what do you do when there is a guy you like but your not sure if he likes you! he acks like it but then again he does that to everyone!! im confused. also what do you do when you like your friends boyfriend!! or when you like they same guy as your friend and you both want to go out with him????
2007-05-23 06:47:46 · 15 answers · asked by PIRATE LOVER FOREVER!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk with him and also to see if he wants to spend time with you.
2007-05-23 06:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all if the boy who acts like he like you acts that way with everyone else then you should ask him if that's the way he really feels about you in particular. About your friend's boyfriend, unless they break up, he's not yours. Until you know if he even likes you don't mention it or it could put both your friendship and potential relationship at risk. But if they do break up, make sure there is reasonable time for it to really end before you make a move. As far as the guy that you and your friend both want to go out with, I think that which ever one of you the gut likes better should have him. What's the point in having a one way relationship? Ask him and then whoever is the lucky girl can date him. So good luck with all of your relationship troubles because it sounds like you have alot. And try to stick with one guy, even if you like the others a little bit too.
2007-05-23 13:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by randomreader013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to say whats on your mind to him. You sound a little younger, and when you're that age, a lot of times you can have friends talk to the boys for you if you are too nervous. That's what I always used to do when I was younger. I would not go for a friends boyfriend, you dont want to look like a bad person. You want to be able to say that no matter what a friend ever did to you, you never crossed her. Also, if you and your friend are going for the same guy, the better one will win. Even if its not you, maybe you two were not going to be good together. If he doesn't pick you he just plain doesnt deserve you.
2007-05-23 13:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by hillsfan19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all if you like your friends boyfriend .... I would consider what would happen between you and your friend if you ever acted on it. Would it be worth your friendship for a night with her man....
If you and your friend both like the same person you should talk to her about it. Tell her that you also like him and if he likes one of you two then you should see how the chemistry flies.
And he is probably a flirt with everyone, but if he pays extra special attention to you .. that means he likes you and maybe you should be the one to ask him out sometime. He probably just is a overly friendly person and funny too and likes everyone and isn't SO honest with the one he TRULY likes. You know.
2007-05-23 13:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by peaches830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like to play guessing games. So if i was in a situation in which i do not know if the guy like me or not, i would approach him to find the answer in some way. I might ask him if he would be interested in hanging out and see what his answer it.
I wouldn't like my friend's boyfriends. Why? Because buys that are taken are OFF LIMITS, no exceptions. I don't want to look desperate, so therefore I would definitely leave him alone. Plus, if the boy cheats on his gf with you, he's not worth having anyways. I don't tolerate cheaters!
If both my friend and I like a guy at the same time, i would let her have him. I don't like to compete when it comes to guys. If the guy like you for who you are, you wont have to compete at all.
2007-05-23 14:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by pretty asian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you like 3 different guys...... now I'm confused. lol
Ok, so here's how it works:
1) You like a single guy, then you need to approach him with your feelings, of course there's always a chance of rejection, but Hey that's life.... you move on !!!
2) Friends Boyfriends.... No No No No No. Ever heard the expression Bro's before Ho's (same thing for girls)
3) 2 friends like the same guy.... all's fair in Love and War.
But stick to the single ones, less hassle that way Darling !!!
2007-05-23 13:57:21 · answer #6 · answered by M.O. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy you like acts like he like you but he acts this way with everybody, he's probally not really interested in just you. He could be just a flirt or a really friendly person. Try holding a conversation with him just to know where his head really is. If you are diggin your friend's boyfriend keep it to yourself (this too shall pass) your friendship is not worth jeopardizing because of some guy. Finally, if you and your friend is checkin out the same guy and neither one of you is going out with him, may the best man (chick) win.
2007-05-23 14:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by Karen L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he acts like he likes everyone hes just a big flirt and probably couldn't be trusted. If you like your friends boyfriend you have problems... you should not hurt your friend.. your friend will be there for you long after the little boyfriend is gone and long forgotten about. And besides if you can take him from your friend the next one that comes along can take him from you. If hes that easy he can not be trusted.
2007-05-23 13:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not date your girlfriend's guy. EVER. Do not compete with her for a guy. EVER.
Show character by loyalty to your friend over following lust for some guy.
Find someone else to date.
Do you live a little town where there are only a few guys to fight over? In that case, date online.
Just because you are attracted to someone, you do not have to HAVE them. You can DECIDE whom to date.
You can be a real friend.
If he likes you, he will tell you. Or you can tell him.
Meanwhile, get a life.
2007-05-23 13:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to date not you friends boyfriend! There are plenty of fish in the sea now go fishing for a catch of your own!
2007-05-23 13:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by Janice 10 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-23 13:50:58 · answer #11 · answered by cocoxnznz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋