Please answer this question: what am I missing?

Question

I am a 29 year old female, physically attractive and intelligent with a lot of common sense. I work hard because if I were to pay someone as well as i am being paid, i would want them to work hard for me, and i also get satisafction from having accomplished a lot as a part of a team. I take care of myself first, eat healthy, save my money, exercise, and masturbate quite regularly. I am also a good daughter to my widowed mother, a good friend to others, a respectful employee. I am a good lover to both women and men and i enjoy both gentle and wild but safe sex without guilt or reservation, and i am multi-orgasmic. I feel no guilt about anything I do. I do not cheat, lie, steal, injure or kill because I would not want these things done to me. I feel my own pain and do not try to cast it off or make myself feel better by using drugs or alcohol, ritual or belief in some higher power. Someone just told me that I need to go to church. Please, tellme why.

I have plenty of love in my life. As for Jesus, I know about him. I don't believe in God or jesus, okay. What I am saying is that my life is complete and people are trying to tell me it is not complete without jesus, and i am looking for any evidence you born-again's can produce that he exists and that I am not complete without him.

Answer 1

Nothings missing babe. Dont you worry about what other people say. If you feel like your doing ok then you are. Its important to be a good friend, a good daughter, and to work and you are doing that all. You are a good person! Dont forget that! :-)

Answer 2

you really do not "need" to go to church, you need Jesus. You have never lied? You have never stolen or injured someone? Good for you- but just listening to you, you sound like your a living a life of sexual sin. You are living for the pleasures of the moment- did you ever realize that eternity is a lot longer than you are on this earth- besides, did you ever think, even if it is not sin, that you could get sexually transmitted diseases? You have a choice how you live, but ultimately you will answer to God.

Answer 3

Life is not about what you just wrote- It is about Jesus Christ. Does not matter how good you think you are, and the world's happiness will fade away-- it does not last nor is it complete. But what matters more is your eternal salvation in Jesus Christ.
Do you know why you need to know Him? Please e mail me, I care and I would love to share the reasons why salvation is so important ( and whoever said you need to go to church does not exactly know the meaning of salvation, for it is not going to church that saves you--- even though church is a great place to learn God's word, you are not saved by going there- but are spiritually fed as God wants all His believers to be)

Answer 4

Love
1If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.
2If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
3If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
9For we know in part and we prophesy in part,
10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.
12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Answer 5

Because they want you to be like them, and not how you are.

CHRISTIAN, n.
One who believes that the New Testament is a divinely inspired book admirably suited to the spiritual needs of his neighbor. One who follows the teachings of Christ in so far as they are not inconsistent with a life of sin.

Answer 6

Looks like you have alot of good that you do but unfortunately there is also sin that you overlook. Church helps but you need to turn your life over to Jesus, and don't wait for church service. You can do it now.

Answer 7

Because you enjoy life fully. Some people fear that. They believe that because you do these things you are sinning. If you aren't christian then guess what you aren't sinning no matter what they say. Sin is their burden to bare.

Answer 8

Because they've deluded themselves to believe that their way of life is the only way of life and that their way of life is the only way to secure a favorable position in some imaginary afterlife.

I just ignore them... they'll give up on trying to convert you if you just ignore them.... It may take a while, but it will work! You'll see! lol

Answer 9

It won't hurt you or others to try going to church -- so why not try?

You trust your own feelings, try it out -- give it a good try -- try different ones; and trust your feelings

Answer 10

if no sense or salt in your life , so go to church
to eat the true eat and to drink the true drink.
John 6:55.