I don't like that feeling but it became lock in my head to not believe what men say. Is that bad what should i do to change the way i think
2007-05-23 06:23:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You actually don't have to trust anyone right now if you don't want too. I spent a long time in my late 20s not trusting anyone because of the relationships I was in. Sometimes it takes to time for the way you feel about things and think about things. There's no wrong or right way about that, it is what it is, and you are who you are. If you feel differently in six months, great! If not, ok too!
2007-05-23 06:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't agree more. It's really hard for me to trust people too but it's life. I'm a lot more cautious about who I trust but even so, I still have a guard up. You just have to be smart with the people around you. Really listen to what they say and remember it. Sometimes they will say something and later it's a whole new story. This is something I learned and wish I learned a long time ago. Listen to yourself, if you have some doubt about a person, then keep your guard up and don't forget about it. You have doubt for a reason. If I had listened to myself I would have saved myself a whole lot of heartach. Good luck.
2007-05-23 13:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well In that case You wouldn't believe me right? but let's take this for instance here is this guy you like and he tells you he also likes you so wouldn't you take the risk of trusting him on what he says and for a fact that's one thing you will really need in love it's like one quote I've heard that "when you love someone you should give him your trust and if he breaks it he's not worth it" it's somewhat like that but you shouldn't generalize on things like that I know It's hard to give your trust but Everybody is unique so not everyone would break your trust
2007-05-23 21:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by Psy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to forgive those that have hurt you. Trust opens you up to more pain and you have taught yourself to stay away from that....As long as you feel that way you will not be able to give yourself to another relationship completely. You may need to talk to a professional.
2007-05-23 13:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by themyth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to do, i too experienced that.. so hard to let go...
2007-05-23 13:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by mhaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋