How do you balance male/female energies within oneself?

Question

I heard that people seek for a soulmate because their male and female energies are not balanced. If you have balance inside of you, then you won't need to search for a soulmate to satisfy those desires. I have too much male in me and searching for female to balance out my energy but would like to change the energy inside but don't know how to balance it. Any suggestions would be appreciated on how to get more female energy so I'm not trying to look so hard on the outside world to bring female into my life. I need to change on inside first. Something is unbalanced since I search so much outside of self to bring fullfillment.

Answer 1

Yarrrrrrrr, ya scallywag. Some time as me cabin-boy should cure you of that, LOL. But shouldn't this question be in a more gay category like relationships or something? Or you could just by some frilly panties and get in touch with your feminine side that way. Yar he har har!!

Answer 2

You don't need extra female energy you need to balance your own energy with meditation and chakra balancing. Flower essence, as odd as it sounds, helps with this. You need to have a practitioner make a flower essence formula for chakra balancing for you.

And then, breath meditation would be helpful in learning more about yourself.

If we aren't whole and happy we cannot offer anything to someone else, but only take and that dooms a relationship

Answer 3

If you somehow figure out a way to balance your energies so that you no longer need/want a partner, what is the other person going to do?
Anyway, that's just one theory. If you feel you're missing something, try meditation or take a psychology class.

Answer 4

Your either male or your female. You don't have any "energies" of other genders. But I guess you could read some romantic novels. Those are pretty feminine so maybe those will balance your energy.

Answer 5

i find wiccan men usually have a good balance within them. i'm not sure if they come to wicca because they have this balance, or they find the balance after coming to wicca.

i'm not wiccan, i'm eclectic pagan, and have many wiccan friends, male and female.

Answer 6

You should give the 10 points for 'best answer' to whoever figures out what you mean.

Answer 7

I like this article. http://www.trans4mind.com/counterpoint/shamanic5.shtml

I think it might be beneficial to you.