Ok so I was just wondering everyone's view on Cheaters. Do you think if someone cheats once, they will 100% do it again in the future. I believe in second chances but I just wanted to see what everyone else thinks.
2007-05-23 03:20:00 · 33 answers · asked by LMFAO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think every situation is different and just because someone cheated once, that doesn't mean a second time is inevitable. I prefer to believe we all grow and learn from our mistakes. So I'm willing to give a second chance.
2007-05-23 03:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in second chances to an extent. But with cheating that involves trust, honesty and respect for your significant other. Once those values are violated it shows true feelings no excuses like ohh i was just very upset with you or i was drunk.... so i wouldnt give a second chance with this
But do some cheaters cheat 100 of the time again no but i bet the percentage is still pretty high
2007-05-23 03:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that in all cases. I know a lot of people who have cheated because of certain reasons. Drugs, alcohol, or just a one time thing because of a fight they had. I dont' believe that some of these people will continue to cheat. I know that if they love the person and really regret it and wanna make things better that they can do it. Forgiveness is a great thing to do after someone cheats. But only one more chance. If they have cheated 3 or 4 times and then you find out, they will continue to do it. But if they had sex one time with one person and that was it, give them another chance. Also if they tell you theirselves that it happended, that is the best sign that they are sorry and wanna make things work!
2007-05-23 03:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in second chances as far as cheating is concerned. Once a cheater always a cheater to me. I couldn't be with someone that I could no longer trust.
2007-05-23 03:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by joyce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do believe in 2nd chances but not if someone cheated. I believe in the whole once a cheater always a cheater..I have been thru and I dont want to go thru again!
2007-05-23 03:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, they do. I have friend whom have cheated on their spouses more than once. The husband cheated, but changed his ways and has proven himself and he's stopped. However, the wife emotionally is still stuck back there from two years ago when it happend. She's refused counseling but yet continues to whine about what happened and we've all told her she needs help. It's tougher to get a second chance because of how you'll both be in the end.
2007-05-23 03:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think its fair to say that because someone does something once they will do it again. After all who can honestly say they have never done anything in their lives that they have regretted and would never do again. Each situation must be judged on its own merits as no two situations are the same. Like you i believe in second chances but there are no third chances as far as i am concerned.
2007-05-23 03:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by jo h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not saying people cannot change because that would be wrong. I don't believe the act of cheating alone should be analyzed but the reason why they cheated. Did this person cheat because they weren't being fullfilled by something or just because they wanted to be with someone else. I think it depends on the person and people CAN change.
2007-05-23 03:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by kerriannsurratt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you have the nerve to do it the first time you sure as hell have the nerve to do it the second time. Now how its handled the first time helps detirmine what happens in the future. If you just forgive the person and be like don't do it again the person would be like that is easy as crap lets do it again. But if you end it and make them suffer they will understand cheating is no joke.
2007-05-23 03:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can cheat ten times, but it isn't 100% that they will do it again in the future. It depends on person so person, the type of relationship they are in, and if they really care about the person.
2007-05-23 03:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋