2007-05-23 03:18:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would leave him, it has happen to me so many times, if it happened for the first time it will happen again. but its easier said than done. If you really love each other and he makes you happy, than don't listen to the other people, do what you feel best in your heart. Don't let him break your heart, it will take time to heal. good luck.
2007-05-23 03:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Lindi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I bet every answer here will say leave him.
But if you really do love him you will give him another try. Not because you trust him but because you won't be able to let him go.
But lol like all the rest I would say leave him. Even though it would probably be very hard.
And I do not believe in that once a cheater always a cheater thing. All the people saying that probably had boyfriends who just didn't want to deal with their nagging and just didn't care. That guy may find someone who he totally falls for and may never even think about cheating on her.
2007-05-23 10:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Christian T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been there myself, and let me tell you, "Love" will have you sooo blind that youll end up staying w/ him and not really forgiving him totally. then he will see that you will stay w/ him no matter what he does, that's a sign of weakness on your part (in his eyes) ....however if the relationship has a long history 3-4 years or more, depending on the situation which never could be justified for cheating, you need to feed him w/ a long spoon girl. give him a hard time w/ getting back w/ you, he needs to "suffer" and show you how bad he really wants to be w/ you, this does not include "sex" honey, this is the #1. action he will try to get you back to "normal". nope let him do everything for you b/c he cheated and no man should touch you after laying w/ another woman, ....give him a hard time and make sure this is the man you want even after all that jazz, otherwise "leave em'..
2007-05-23 10:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had this happen to me since I was in high school (that I know of), and I think it would depend on the situation, but I do think I would leave. I don't think you can ever truly forgive someone for that kind of betrayal. The relationship would never be the same.
2007-05-23 10:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, once a cheater always a cheater.
It will be a constant worry if you stay and the worry will cause you to question him constantly and you will wind up breaking up anyway. Good Luck finding somebody else who values a real trusting relationship.
2007-05-23 10:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how your relationship is defined.
True, it is very hard to get over being cheated on, but it can and does happen, if the person who cheated is truly remorseful and the other person is willing to accpet the apology.
2007-05-23 10:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by silly_me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave Honey..Once a Cheater Always A Cheater..They might say they will never do it again but honey, they most of the time do!
2007-05-23 10:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheaters will always cheat. no matter how hard it is leave him. if he loved you he would never have cheated, and do u really want to be with someone who is stupid enough to get caught?
2007-05-23 10:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and I mean RUN!!! I am married and just found out myself that I have been cheated on. So please leave because if not he is gonna keep doing it and I pray to God you didn't contract anything.
2007-05-23 10:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by SAMMIE K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how many times did he do this to you, one time or more than one time? This is a question you have to ask yourself.If you are tired of playing games it is best for you to leave him.
2007-05-23 10:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lateasha b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋