I have been biecurious since, I guess grade school. I am married and love my husband and he knows I kissed a girl once I dont want to have an affair but he does know that there are some girls I would be interrested it. He says at some point he finds it sexy and at some point he's scared because he's afraid i'll leave him for a girl. Which will never happen, however the thought of being (sexually) with a women is always in my head I even dream of it..I want to make like some kind of E-mail friend of some sort that I can e-mail about this ..i'm thinking if i find somone i can talk to and even be dirty with..this feeling will go away.! Any REAL suggestions?
2007-05-23 03:16:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is a good question to me. I was bi curiouse and me and my husband talked about it for awhile and then after all the talking and setting up the rules that we both agreed on we did it. I had a great time and so did he. First you meet someone that's in your area and talk to them get to know them as a friend and person. You know someone that you can trust. Then you try it if you like and so does he then you do it again. The first time is weired. But with us it was that we both had to be there in the same room he could watch help or join in. The other woman had the same rules with her husband and when we want to do it again we all meet go out and see where we end up. they're website that you can check out. Adult Friend Finder and Swing Life Style.
Just make sure that you and him really want to do this. And set up rules they help alot. Make sure that he knows that you love him and that you don't want to leave him you just want to experiment with a woman.
2007-05-23 03:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by mystic_butterfly_420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a bad idea. Rather than making your feeling go away, I think having an email relationship with someone would just add fuel to your fantasies and make you want to act on them more.
I think you need to figure out whether pursuing a relationship with another woman is really becoming a priority for you. If it is, then your marriage may suffer. If you really want to talk to someone about this why not see a counselor or therapist to try to get to the bottom of how you are feeling?
2007-05-23 03:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anne M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) What quotes? Misleading question = no serious answers. 2) You're that goon that threatened atheists by saying that our answers were going into your "database" and you said that we're all violent or vulgar or just sick in the head, and you threatened to use those answers against us in some way, shape, form, or fashion. Did your old account finally get deleted? F*ck off. 3) What's your obsession with green-eyed mixed boys with wavy brown hair? Pedophile.
2016-05-20 22:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is all about girl on girl action. And while he says he wouldn't have a problem with me exploring...I think he would. Talk with your hubby some more. See what he is comfortable with. Good Luck.
2007-05-23 03:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by ~Charity~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's realistic to try this....regardless of his words, he will be hurt by it. And it will fester.
It was one of the major causes of the collapse of my first marriage - she was lesbian and tried to keep it in the closet, but eventually it leaked out.
If you try this and if your husband agrees, be prepared in case it ruins your marriage to him....in which case you and your GF can get married - problem solved.
2007-05-23 03:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope feeling would get worse. you would just be tempted to do the real thing even more. maybe you could talk your husband into a three way---just make it sound more for his benefit, that way he wont get suspicios
2007-05-23 03:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yiou know..same thing here, i am also bicurious and i tell my boyfriend about it oo..he says its funny..and he only kids that i will leave him..he doesnt think i will..and maybe i wont but i do want to see what its like...even though i wouldnt know what to do..i have never kkissed a girl..and i would like to see what its like? wanna try? I dunno how old u r..im very young...
2007-05-23 03:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by mexican0k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-23 03:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thank goodness you're a woman, its fine, explore your hubby wont mind
2007-05-23 03:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by king of spain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to join in..... shoot he may want too
2007-05-23 03:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by tinkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋