my cousin likes me. not really cousin, just someone i known all my life, and was in wedding wit me. say yes?

Question

Ok, i need lots of awesome answers! my cousin likes me!~ she is hot, but she is my cousin. not step, not blood
Help!my cousin likes me! its not blood relation, its the ick factor that creeps me out!?
ok,i had 2 sdance and walk down the isle yesterday with my cousin. and now she is hittingon me! well, she is on the brides side(ruth) and i am onmy uncles side(erick). her name is kelseyand io have 2 admit, she is pretty cute. but she is my cousin for gods sakes. if she was not my cousin, i would TOTALLY go 4 her. but she ismy cousin so... what should i do? i think she is hot, and we c eachother alot in priate. i dont want sex with her. just how do i say yes?do i say yes? she is hot nice and 14just like me.
we r both pretty attractive.

Answer 1

You are too weird!!! She is NOT your cousin, so why are you yappin about it??

BTW....There is NOTHING wrong with cousins doing the wild thing!

Answer 2

That is up to you since you are not really related. But you have to think about what others around you would think and say like family members. Just let her know she is really pretty but if you are still really concerned about the cousin issue tell her I don't think it would work b/c I consider you as my cousin. But it is up to you whatever you decide. Just remember those factors I mentioned.

Good luck
Simone

Answer 3

depending on what state you live in, certain relationships aren't allowed.
after that disclaimer, so your hot cousin has a crush on you and you don't know whether to hook up or not. If you are already experiencing the 'ick factor,' it is probably not a good idea. Not to mention what your parents/friends/other relatives might think. I'd say to tell her no thanks and avoid her.

Answer 4

If there is no blood between the two of you, in reality she is not really your cousin. You probably consider her cousin by marriage. There is nothing wrong with dating this person.

Answer 5

Well Its good shes not a blood cousin, I guess. You know in other countries marrying your cousin isnt that weird. Anyway, yeah dont think it'll go anywhere, american families kind of look down upon it. unless you can keep it hush hush.

Answer 6

If she is really NOT your cousin, then you should go for it. If she is a life long friend, those are usually the best ones, b/c you already know each other so well.

Answer 7

if you're related through marriage, then don't worry about it.
if you're blood relatives, then eww!

now, if you can't get past the whole related thing, then don't say yes...just back off from her.

my parents were "related" before they married. my mom's uncle married my dad's aunt. so, there was no blood relation, just through marriage.
it was no big deal.
it was kind of a joke, really, b/c when they got married my great aunt was telling people that her neice was marrying her nephew!! it was like a joke.

if you feel weird about it, then say "no".
got it?

Answer 8

DUDE go 4 it. I'm 14 too so if i had a chick like that after me then yeah i would go for it!
And dude even though she isnt your real cousin. there is nothing to worry about.
she's hot and likes you then go for it!!!

-Nick

Answer 9

Calm down - she's NOT your cousin! In order for her to be your cousin, she would have to be the child of a brother or sister of one of your parents'. She's not and it's okay if you want to date her.

Answer 10

if she is your cousin i think you shouldn't say her "yes"! But you too can go somewhere and hawe a fun :) without any relationships. If you are attractive girls will be more interested in you if you will be free. but with cousin you can go to cinema ore somewhere else :)