He's a very close friend. Has been for some time now. Buts very obvious that friendship is all that he's in it for.
2007-05-23 02:06:55 · 11 answers · asked by Crazy Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because the heart knows no boundaries.....that's why. The discipline comes in with our rational thinking. You have to know in your head that this guy wants friendship only......however, your heart is saying, "but maybe there's a chance he'll give in and fall in love with me". You will only drive yourself crazy with fantasy and obsession and get no results. Listen to the voice of reason and accept and respect his desire for friendship only. When you come to terms with this, you can move on and find the one who you are truly meant to be with....but you will never be able to find him as long as your energy is focused on the "dead end" relationship.
2007-05-23 02:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Michael V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im trying 2 figure the same thing out. i met this girl on gaia, samantha oneal, and i gave her false information. itold her i was born i wisconsin, when in actuallity,i was born in holland. i told her i was 15 when i was really14. we probably should not have even known each other existed and then she just confronted me. and then we were really serious and we started e-mail dating. but tyhen i told her the truth and she hated me 4 lieing. she ended it and i am waiting 4 an e-mail of forgiveness. the only reson i lied is because i did not feel comfortable with her yet. because immediately when i asked herout she called me sexy and ended the e-mail with french kiss. but if she is ur first love, thats why.its very hard 2 give up the luxury of love if u have never had it before. if it is not ur first, its because theperson has 2 sides. a side u dont love and a side u will never wanna give up. see ya. ps... add me 2 ur contacts plz. bye
2007-05-23 09:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've probably invested a lot of time, thought, and emotion into romantic expectations. It takes time and discipline to break those neural pathways you've actively created in your brain, tear down that association.
Its always best to come into all relationships the same, in neutral, and stay there as long as possible. Regardless of a person's sex, behind that flesh and those eyes, they are a person. In the future try to look past the exterior and love them for who they are, not what you expect them to be for your own wants, needs, and desires.
There is plenty of time to put down emotional roots with another person if you mutually agree that is where you want the relationship to go, but not before hand.
2007-05-23 09:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the saying goes, "It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all."
He may discover what he's been looking for has been right in front of him the whole time. Remain a friend, but don't give up hope on him.
2007-05-23 09:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember when my ex cheated on me, I was in the worst pain and heartache of my life. I still loved him so much after that even from what he had done to me- I can't explain why he hurt me and I still wanted to be with him, although it takes time you will move on. If this guy is only in it for the friendship it will be difficult to be around him but distance yourself some and this to shall pass.
2007-05-23 09:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by heathermichelle9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to love a friend. Just don't bring up anything remotely close along the lines of taking it to another level if you want to avoid having your feelings hurt. But usually, the signs are there if he begins feeling like you do.
2007-05-23 09:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by Inquiring mind wants to know.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, im a man whose heart has been broken many times before. and I know, it hurts like f***.
But, you know what, just force yourself not to even think about this person. If you see this person at the end of the street or something, run away. Avoid confrontations. Man, you are better than you think. If you shouldn't love, you shouldn't love. THere is a good virtue in bachelorhood. Are you a girl? I'm a guy.
2007-05-23 09:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thinking u love someone is all in the mind i went through a situation like that once,u will get over them trust me,it might not seem like it now but u will.all the best!
2007-05-23 09:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart wants what it wants! If you know that all he wants is friendship,you are really just setting yourself up. take some time away from him.
2007-05-23 09:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel as if you like him but find someone else if you think your friendship is more important
2007-05-23 09:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋