Give it to me for real. What makes a man worthy for you. What does he have to have. Be specific.
2007-05-23 01:56:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Independent, confident, responsible, action and goal oriented, a go-getter, fun, spontaneous, adventurous, established, healthy, smart, honest, humble, energetic, respectful, sensitive.
2007-05-23 02:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not going to shoot for 'worthy' since I don't like the connotation, but I can tell you what makes a man attractive.
First and foremost is intelligence and humor. I want someone I can truly talk to about anything with out the blank stare or me having to give a definition. Humor is important because with all that life holds in store for you, you have to be able to laugh at things or you'll just crack. I have almost always been a sucker for wit, which to me is the combination of humor and intelligence. Very rare find.
Someone who is passionate, I want a guy that has no problem throwing me over his shoulder when sparks are ignited. I think that also speaks to a certain level of confidence as well.
Thoughtful, in the sense that he would do little things to make me feel appreciated. I don't mean gifts or flowers. Spending time and making me feel important to him, not an afterthought.
Dependable and responsible, ok...yup...boring but important. I don't want a man I have to baby sit.
Loving, affectionate and loyal. If he's mine I don't want to ever feel like I have to second guess that.
2007-05-23 02:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm an oldy, and I come from the old school,plus I'm married, have been for seven years.First of all a man have to respect you as a person and as a woman. He has to meet you half way,he has to be a good listner,have a good heart, he doesn't have to have a great job but he do have to have a job that would take care of the both of you if you two choose to get married,even if you work,he has to be trust worthy,honest,and he would have to love the Lord, and go to church,he should be sinsitive to your needs,as well as you are to his.He should see you at your worst and your best,and visa versa, he should be able to hold a conversation, should love children,and respect your family,it doesn't mean he has to put up with them if they cause problems. It take two to make a relationship, but it dont mean you have to settle for less,look for the best and pick the best,and that means you not only have great respect for yourself,but it also means that you love you,and that you want only the best for you. It might take awhile for you to find the right person,but in the long run it will be worth it,trust me I know, I have a great husband!
2007-05-23 02:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ideal guy is kind hearted - but not a push over. He has to have manners and respect other people. He has to be honest, trustworthy and loyal. He has to have a great sense of humor and have a happy outlook on life. He can't be angry all the time. Live and let live attitude. He has to be giving and he has to be able to share. ( I am not necessarily talking about money) He is not afraid of talking about how he feels and he listens to how I feel. No drugs, very little drinking.Good hygiene. Doesn't expect that the world owes him - we all do our share. (If you find one like this- send him my way!)
2007-05-23 02:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My top Five:
1. Have a decent paying job.
2. Takes care of his teeth.
3. Not be a jealous person.
4. To be honest...with himself as with his girl.
5. And hopefully have a fairly normal family!
2007-05-23 02:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by wilfredo a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a guy to date me he has to be very honest. Even though the guy might do things that I don't agree with I believe he should tell me. I believe without trust the relationship will not work. Plus the guy has to be smart, funny, ambitious, and willing to try new things, and not think about himself. No woman wants a man who thinks about himself.
2007-05-23 02:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a christian man.
tall, light eyes
very good manners
he has to respect me.
my parents HAVE to like him.
he has to wear clean clothes and never wear a shirt more than once a week.
he has to make me laugh, without trying.
i don't like going after guys so they have to go after me,
he won't dare hit me, or act of any kind of roughness
he has to get along with his own parents
he has to get good grades in school, and play sports
his attention has to be on me, most of the time.
he can't be jelous of my guy friends.
he has to be honest with me.
2007-05-23 02:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by teddyGisgreat! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction. If I'm attracted to him and he is to me and he's a good guy I'll date him. Its not rocket scince. Treat a girl like a lady and you'll keep her. Respect, honest......are standard. Appeal to her. And if there's a 'magic' between you it so much better.
2007-05-23 02:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by samsara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Compassionate, highly intelligent, optimistic, honest, decent-looking, confident, vegetarian, and self-sufficient; no doubt these lists will vary greatly!
2007-05-23 02:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by Artemisia G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to have a nice personality, a good attitude, and not think women are playthings. Beyond that, it's all chemistry.
2007-05-23 02:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋