I'm a commitment phobic and that's what I attract. I kow why I attract the men I do. I'm not stupid I woked out a long time ago that I too am a commitment phobic. BUT I really don't want to be one any more. I'm tired of it. How do I change?
2007-05-23 01:44:02 · 3 answers · asked by samsara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks..........thats BRILLIANT advice!
2007-05-23 01:55:50 · update #1
I would suggest you go into counselling in order to figure out why you behave as you do. Then take active steps to change. It would be a good idea to take some time without dating. Then, when you begin dating again, before you have the fifth date (and certainly before sex) sit down and write down the traits of the person you're dating. Ask yourself some tough questions meant to pinpoint those who are unlikely to commit. Ask your counsellor to help you with it. Good luck!
2007-05-23 01:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are blaming everyone and everything for the fact that your relationship with this broken man isn't working out. You would be better off to just accept it and move on with your life. And maybe get some professional therapy to deal with your disappointment.
2016-05-20 22:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love will change that when it hits you. It will happen, be patient. Im the same way, but i have hope.
2007-05-23 01:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋