Sex Question?

Question

me and my male friend were talking last nigth and he said that you hear everywhere that it is better to have sex with a curvacious women rather than a women that weighs her birth weight?

He wants to know if its true and why?

Please help

I tried explaining to him that 85% of the attractive slim women who have sex know in their back of their mind that if it doesnt work out with him she can always find someone else coz she has looks on her side. and overweight women are in it emotionally.

I know its sounds feministic in words, but that was our argument.

Answer 1

Women who are skinny and drop dead gorgeous usually go through a lot of guys in their lifetime, because like you said, they know that they can always find someone better, or they just get tired of a guy and want to move on to something else. Women who are a little on the thick side don't go through men as fast because they don't get as many opportunities. Most of the time they are in it emotionally and long term.

Answer 2

Your question sounds like it's from the opinion of a bitter girl that is overweight. No living adult woman weighs the same as she did at birth. Sex is better with someone you enjoy being with that enjoys having sex with you. Not how fat or skinny you are. Girls that are heavy are not in it anymore "emotionally" than a skinny girl. That makes no sense. They may be trying harder because they need to settle for guys that they wouldn't have chosen to sleep with if they were thinner than they are and therefore, they go above and beyond in the attempt to be more kinky, more experimental, louder, more "into it" or act like it's a competetion because they have a chip on their shoulder in the self esteem department and a skinny girl knows she can screw whomever and whenever she wants to so she may be a snob or just more picky and not try too hard to please because she is expecting to be pleased in order to give a repeat performance.

Where do you come up with the 85% figure? It's not really an argument that can be won or lost. Just an opinion, same as mine is with no right or wrong.

Answer 3

From experience, I've never felt skinny girls i've been with were less than fully emotionally into the sex.

I think the question involves a lot of personal preference.

I would rather have vanilla sex with a 100-pound girl than really awesome and kinky sex with a 140 or 180 pound girl.

One reason being, someone who's not awesome in bed can be taught! Skinny girls just turn me on much more.

Now I should be clear that I see sex as part of a relationship, while guys who are only interested in a one-night stand don't think of it that way. I know the girl I end up with would have to be skinny for me to be truly satisfied, so I wouldn't want to fool around with someone I couldn't end up with.

Finally, it's kind of mean if you know the "big girl" is into you emotionally but you're just in it for the sex.

Plenty of men, of course, are not as nearly as picky about weight as I am. I'm just giving one perspective.

Answer 4

What exactly does he mean by curvacious? That does not necessarily mean fat,strippers are curvy, why else would men pay to watch? Why date a woman if you would want the body of a twelve year old boy?

Answer 5

No way. I am slim and all that sh*t but Im in it emoptionally. its so hard to find a genuine guy. Im not interested in skipping through men. I have only ever had long term realtionships. Its the person - not what they look like.

Its just generalising or stereotyping.

It may be like that for others.. not for me though

Answer 6

Tastes differ. However, as far as I know, men like curves; a broomstick has no sex appeal, does it? So, if you ask me, a woman should be fit and yet with the right curves in the right places;)...As a fit, yet curvy woman, I can tell you that, yes, having the looks on your side makes you more self-confident;)...Personally, I love harmony and proportion, so I take good care of mtyself, not only for my man, but for myself too.

Answer 7

well ur rite a woman wid weight is not gonna leave u but a gorgeous is a better choice wen ur not lukin 4 a serious relationship

Answer 8

Don't go around using heavy women to fulfill your desires. They have feelings too!!!

Answer 9

yes cuz thick woman will throw it on u so hard you"ll never want to leave the bed

Answer 10

big girls are pretty much open to anything. great oral, anal, so on and so no. some slimmer girls do this too, but big girls, it's almost a sure thing.