My girl freind won't even take her shirt of in front of me We make out and stuff but clothes always on. How can i make her want to bbe more open in those areas. like is there something that i can do when we make out to get her to take it to the next level. I mean everytime i try and get her to take her shirt off she resists and it is driving me crazy!
2007-05-22 20:38:57 · 7 answers · asked by justinhokie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Patience and trust.
Those are the two key elements of any relationship. In time, once she's ready, then you might go on. The fact that you're trying to change her mind so that she'll take her shirt off around you really isn't a great testament to the depths of your feelings about her.
2007-05-22 20:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Enigmatarius 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard for men to understand, but the more thoughtful you are, the more patient, the more understanding -- the more you TURN WOMEN ON. Tell her you'll wait, if that's what she wants. Touch her lightly, as if she's the most precious thing in the world. RESPECT her wishes -- she will find you irresistible!
Women today are SO body conscious. If she doesn't look like a super model, she's probably really shy about letting you see her. Do everything you can to help her feel beautiful and comfortable with you. DO NOT push -- or you'll push her away.
Good luck.
2007-05-23 03:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by luvrats 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think I'd need to know how old you (and her) are before answering this. That's pretty important.
Also, how long have you been with her? You might be rushing things.
She might just not be ready for sexual contact. My advise as a girl? Be patient with her! If you pressure her too much, you'll just turn her off to you.
2007-05-23 03:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by AMD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is shy or self conscious. It is likely that she is not happy with her body. When you make out with her, look into her eyes, tell her she is beautiful in every way.
Or maybe she is not ready to take it to the next level yet. She wants to save herself. In that case, don't push her.
And again, if she loves you , she would want to please you. There is nothing you can do to actually make her want to please you.
2007-05-23 03:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds self conscious maybe she isn't as confident as you think. Tell her how good she looks and how sexy she is . When she feels good about herself she'll open up. Girls really need to hear things like this from their partners.
2007-05-23 04:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by kiwigurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any girl in love will want to please a man she loves, true, but there are other issues at hand which can include upbringing, how she perceives sex, whether or not she trusts you, whether she's saving herself for marriage, whether she feels safe with you...
if you continue to push her she might think you're only out to get physical with her. be careful over there... if she cries rape you're dead.
2007-05-23 03:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by thesaucus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U cannot force her..!!May be she needs time..!!Love her passionately.....May be that will help u out..!!
2007-05-23 03:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋