Child trauma treatment ???

Question

I am writing to ask if anyone out there has been able to sucessfully navigate a state childrens mental health system to find trained and qualified help for thier traumatized child.

The child I am speaking of witnessed the murder of his sibling at the hands of his stepfather. The state wants to provide in home support for the family with a behavior tech many hours a week, but he has yet to be seen by a trauma (or other) therapist with any consistency.

I am beginning to realize that the therapists the state has for the low income are not well trained and are afraid of working with him. I suppose it may be better than working with him and doing more harm than good.

Any thoughts or suggestions?

Answer 1

See if the national child traumatic stress network can offer any therapists in your area.

Trauma Focused - Cognitive Behavior Therapy has been used effectively with traumatized kids.

The saddest part about the whole thing is the system does not do well in investing in these kids until they are adults having significant trouble and possibly being a threat to themselves or others by them.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Unfortunately, most States mental health programs do not have the funds that are needed to give the intensive cognitive therapy and attention needed when dealing with a traumatized child however, there are many hospitals nationwide that specialize and/or have programs set aside for this and then the child will typically be able to get help from a private therapist out patient. Inpatient is not always required and there are many excellent, qualified therapist and Psychologist that work directly with children who have been traumatized and helping them overcome what they are going through and their suffering and will quite often take on special cases for the lower income situations. Another option is to call the States Disability office and speak with an Advocate and they can often get things done that others cannot. The State system can be very frustrating to say the least. I hope this child gets the best possible care out there. Good luck~

Answer 3

My traumatized child buried the memory for about 10 years before I became aware of the trauma. (Yes, it was verified by an independant source)

By this time I had a very troubled teenager on my hands.

The EXPERIENCED and successful therapist we found who specialized in working with my child's age group and diagnosis -- was my 49th mental health contact. -- But insurance never did pay a dime.

(Sorry, state mental health was not our course of action, atleast not what we were able to use)

And yes, the therapy was successful, after many suicidal moments, and a roller coaster of serious symptoms. My child is today a reasonable, calm and responsible independant, working adult who cares deeply about others.

-- Might I suggest you contact your child's school counselor, the State Mental Hospital, or maybe the president of your local mental health board, ask some pointed questions about care and how to go about it.
You are likely going to have to advocate for your child's care, and stay ontop of it.

When you are speaking, use written questions and try to keep your emotions and anger out of it - yet express your concern for your son. Try to gain someone's advocacy for your son, someone who can make phone calls or write letters that the therapists will listen to.