im a junior in highschool, 17 years old, ill be 18 in december. theres a freshman boy whose 15, turning 16 next year. i think he likes me. im not sure if i like him or not. hes a freshman and young so hes immature. but hes a cutie. i dont know if i should even try to date him. some of my friends say it doesnt matter, the age difference, but im not so sure. i like older guys, and id feel a lil weird if i dated him becuz of his age. but its not like he'll ever catch up to my age. what should i do?
2007-05-22 20:09:41 · 6 answers · asked by Freckles 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like him and if you think you would have a good time with him, then date him. What I'm going to tell you is my personal idea and for sure it does not apply to everyone. What I believe is that guys are much more immature than girls their age and that's why you should date men older than you. But I'm sure it varies with each person.
2007-05-22 20:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly its up to u but u must remember that as it is a man your age is three years behind u in the maturity level which is why most girls date guys older than them cause thats the only way that we can talk to them and connect on a different level! This is needed to have a long term relationship. Yes he might b a cutie but could u actually hang around with him and enjoy urself? In the end the age gap will matter. It would be different if u were 15 and he was 17 cause then it could work! Never date a man that is younger unless he is very mature for his age! AND I MEAN VER MATURE FOR HIS AGE!
2007-05-23 03:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can tell you from personal experience that age difference doesn't matter. I'm in a relationship where my girlfriend is three and a half years older than me (I'm 16). We knew each other for just over a year as really good friends, and 3 months ago, it became a relationship.
Basically, if the love's there, who cares? If it's just for a "quick fix", then it's a bad idea.
2007-05-23 03:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Enigmatarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too young . . . and you already say you get the impression that he's immature. I think you'd do better with someone closer to your own age. Good night!
2007-05-23 03:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL!!!!
it is not that he is immature....it's juz that u r immature!!!
dont u have a brains to think???
its juz a physical attraction as u only like him becoz he's cute!!
but love is not juz attraction....its more than that...
you have to understand it first!!!
2007-05-23 03:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No - he's too young for you.
2007-05-23 03:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋