Greetings everyone.
Here is the situation. I met this girl at my workplace. We often see each other and we became quite close. One day I learned that she has a relationship with a guy in another country and they're still contacting and having a long distance attachment. She is travelling to meet him for a month and then come back. And then they will not be meeting for a while because of distance and work as well. I have not made any moves yet because I am respecting this relationship. However, fact is: I am starting to be more interested in her. She is kind, very beautiful, and certainly a girl I could ask for marriage.
Any advice? I know she's taken but have you guys ever experienced such situation? I hate being boyfriend destroyer but sometimes I have to think about myself too.
2007-05-22 20:06:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OOOOOOO so sweet!
I never came up to such a situation.
However, patience always has fruitful results.
According to me, you have to wait and keep in contact with the girl. The guy abroad is just her boyfreind not her husband. You try and win her heart, dont be artificial, be yourself.
But, if you learn that she is truly in love with that guy, then you have no other choice.
Anyway, I wish you luck.
2007-05-22 20:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, don't go there. It looks like a big waste of time, and it could cause problems in your workplace. You should just look for other girls to go out with. Also, how would you feel if you were that guy and he tried to steal YOUR girlfriend from you? Would it be any better because he was just taking care of his own desires? Also, if this was the type of woman who could be coaxed out of a relationship like that, could you trust her? Think about those things. Good night!
2007-05-23 03:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definately understand your dilemna, I found myself involved with a man that had a girlfriend, we started out as friends and now 7 yrs later, we are not together now, it is a hard relationship because of all things we work together, we have to look at each other all of the time, trying to split as friends is really hard, not that we dont try but i dont want to see him with anyone else(or hear about it). yes, i will always care for him and i know he feels the same. good luck, take it slow and you will make the right decision for yourself.
2007-05-23 04:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by dhix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not mix business with pleasure unless you're not really serious about your job!! it might bite you in the asse.
otherwise tell her how you feel, things might be going with the b.f cos of distance then you can be her knight in shining armour, i know i'd like that.
2007-05-23 03:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by yonke q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude , grab your balls and sqweeze really hard, u feel that it hurts huh, think if u dont have the balls to say anything to her before she takes that realationship to the next level, think how thats going to hurt, tell her how u feel and if she dosnt have a interest in u then drop it.
2007-05-23 03:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has no promise to marriage and she is not a friends/relatives girl/woman there is no honor lost to pursue her.
2007-05-23 03:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by oldcorps1947 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make friends with her and be flirty.
she might get to liking you.
then bang her like an animal and get video footage for me!!!!
2007-05-23 03:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by Brandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is married, avoid her like the plague. If she is not married, hit on her.
2007-05-23 03:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋