I always see all these teenage girls pregnant on talk shows. It frustrates me because I am at the point in my life when I want to start a family of my own and it seems like the hardest thing. So i give up ;o)
2007-05-22 18:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by Lady02 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Its one of the unfair things in life. Its right up there with drug users or abusive parents who crank out healthy kids, then there are good people out there that either can't have kids, or have kids with health issues. Life is not fair.
With that said, don't give up! It'll happen, one way or the other. I wish you the best of luck, and have fun trying!!!
2007-05-23 02:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't they say you end up getting pregnant once you stop trying? Or when your least expecting it?
On a different note, my local high school had the SECOND HIGHEST PREGNANCY RATE out of the NATION. I remember seeing more girls pregnant in Junior High then college. (I'm a college Junior now)
It seem like when I see a woman in her mid-30's or so, it seems like she's so OLD to be pregnant! But then I just realize its the environment, 30s is a perfectly fine time to have kids...
Any way, best of luck with getting pregnant.
PS - those girls on talk shows are...well, im sure you know the word im thinking of.
2007-05-23 03:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by morgannhcs05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say, "when you give up ... that's when it happens". I kind of have some belief in the saying. My husband and I had a 18 month old daughter, and it took us 9+ years to conceive again. We had completely given up ... and low and behold, three months later, I was pregnant. God's got a sense of humor, as our son was only 1 month old and I was pregnant AGAIN!! Our sons are the same age for 9 days. :O
BTW: I does seem like every woman on the planet can get pregnant and be happy, when you, yourself, are having a hard time conceiving. lol ... it's kind of like someone eating a big, delicious piece of cheesecake in front of you ... and you'd give anything for a bite.
So, it's alright to give up, it seems when a lot of people do, it happens. Wishin' you the best ... :)
2007-05-23 02:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lifes not fair. If you have been trying more than a year see a doctor, and make sure your man does too (they are usually the one with the problem) Also...relax. Stressing over it can prevent it...you always hear of people who tried so long then they adopt and then get pregnant by accident.
2007-05-23 01:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Stacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's body is different, but it sure does look that way, doesn't it? Don't give up.
There are kits that can help you, your gynecologist can help you, some people swear by the B-12 shots they get. Talk to your doctor, but you will need to be patient for at least a year before you try anything other than mother nature.
2007-05-23 01:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What percentage of the population do you think that talk shows represent??? LOL
How old are you? This is a factor at some point, along with other questions that should be addressed by a physician.
There are other factors that can cause problems that should be discussed in private, with your doctor.
2007-05-23 01:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by yetitrainsdogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up, it took me 18 years to get pregnant. I gave up trying after 4 years and being diagnosed with PCOS, yet here I am pregnant.
Sit back, enjoy trying, but don't make becoming pregnant the centre of your world. When you least excpect it, it will creep up and hit you!
2007-05-23 03:59:16 · answer #7 · answered by Donna A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lady,
Although I claim no special medical knowelge, I would like to suggest that you as well as your husband/ parther you may vistit a doctor to see what is going on . In the worst of cases (which I pray is not the case for you ) you may adopt one baby and to raise him/her as your own. After all the most important is not who gave you birth but who loves you best.
2007-05-23 08:52:58 · answer #8 · answered by chrisvoulg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your shoes. Just till recently I became pregnant. Keep the faith you will get pregnant when the time is right. Best of luck!
2007-05-23 01:51:00 · answer #9 · answered by Crazy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don’t give up. My husband and I tried for 11 years and when we said that we would not worry about it anymore, I became pregnant with twins. It will happen just give it time.
2007-05-23 01:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by Yep it's me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋