Is it wrong that I'm not choosing a religion/lack thereof because I'm not fully informed?

Question

I know enough about most religions, but the thing is I don't know everything. I was raised in a Christian family and my mother always taught me to believe, and I did up until the age of 16 (although I never really thought about it, I was just like ok i guess god exists). Now I find it wrong for me to stand behind something I don't even know everything about. Is this bad? And whether you are religious or not do you find it pointless to stand for something you don't know much about?

Esther- yes i understand i need to get informed NO **** thanks for pointing out the obvious, but what exactly do you mean by "wise decision about who i say jesus is"

okay seriously though. if you're christian- either give me a LOGICAL and not an irrational opinion, or just don't say anything.

side note: this question isn't intended to imply that i want to find 'reasons' behind my belief in god, because if it hasn't made clear, i do not currently believe in god/ the christian faith.

Answer 1

Not in the least.

I would suggest that you choose Christianity (if not because it's just better) because it matches scientific, historic, and phychological (human condition) evidence.

If you don't know enough about it, then you shouldn't take a stand (Al Gore/Global Warming).

Feel free to contact me if you want to know more about Christianity.

Answer 2

As a Christian, this is what I feel led to say:

1. You said you used to be a Christian (kinda)
2. You don't believe in the Christian God (in added remarks)

Now I know what others will say when I say this, but only you know the truth...

If the Holy Spirit were not working on you, you would not be asking this question here...part of you is looking for approval to "not" believe, If you were sure with no doubts you would not need any-ones approval.

Your heart knows enough about Christ to know that you do not know enough to make a proper decision (you were not taught what you needed when you were younger-but enough to still work on you whether you want to admit it or not).

This is what I suggest to ANYONE who is not sure or is searching.....

1. Go one evening somewhere where you can be alone.

2. You don't want cars passing, horns honking, TV or Radio playing.

3. You don't even "need" to take a Bible with you (you can if you want but you don't have to) I usually suggest to someone with doubt "not to take it".

4. Don't set a time limit but don't worry people about "where you might be".

5. Sit down and relax (if you smoke it is ok just relax-no drugs or alcohol).

6. Just sit and relax, watch the stars or what ever.

7. Say out loud (something like this)
God? if you are there, I want to know who you are.
I want to know which God you are,
I want to know which God made me, who and how I should worship you.
Right now I don't believe (or I have doubts-which ever fits you)
Just please show me who you are and "if" you are, that is all I am asking.
Just let me be at peace as you show me so that I have faith in what I do learn if you are real and there.

8. Then just sit back and relax for awhile, what you decide to do after that is up to you.

9. If you can do this 3 or 4 times in a week it is better.

10. If you feel like saying this or anything else at other times then do it.

And let me know if and when anything changes for you.

Rev. Roy Ross

Answer 3

the amount of attempted conversions here are kinda scary. No wonder Christianity won't die, you find undecided people and shove it in their face as the only logical choice (while as the asker said you offer no logic whatsoever). Christianity matching historical and psychological reality? you're dreaming pal.

It is ignorant/arrogant to stand up for something you know little about. Unless that something is God, then apparently you don't need to know a thing. You're probably an agnostic- don't know if God exists, recognize you can't prove either way. It is very satifying decision, you get to think for yourself on everything, and point out flaws on every side of the religion argument (which of course there are).

Answer 4

No, it's not bad to question the reasons for your faith. But let me suggest something. Whether a person ends up believing in God, or not believing in God, both positions require faith to be exercised because neither person can provide absolute proof for his belief.

Not being informed is one thing. But be careful. The point at which you begin hiding behind that lack of knowledge to avoid the issue is the point at which you become responsible. You don't have to know "everything", but you and I should inform ourselves concerning reasons to believe and what the facts are.
I'd be happy to provide information for you to think about if you are interested in knowing more.

Answer 5

It is very hard to stand up for something you do not know personally...but specific religions are not the answer. Religions themselves are made by man. It is only through a personal relationship with God that you will find the strength or the desire to stand up for your beliefs.

Knowledge of God comes from communicating with him. He will seek you....and if you are open to Him, you will find Him waiting to hear from you. Sometimes we have to go through a period of trying to figure out who we are before we are able to acknowledge God as our creator. Science keeps telling people that God does not exist and those concepts are taught from first grade on up so most young people will face a time of doubt. Stay open to the possibility of God. When you are ready...He will come. I've been where you are now and it took a long time before I came back to God but I am most grateful that it did come.

Answer 6

It is not necessary to chose a religion. We are not required to be religious, pious, or sinners, we just "are" and that is very OK. We were given free will by our Creator.
Just keep seeking the answers you are looking for . They will be revealed to you - just keep an open mind. What you find out will not be what you expect. A good place to go in your search is the library. Read as much as you can about spirituality and explore the non-traditional angles. If anything you read makes you feel uncomfortable such as telling you that you were born "dirty" supposedly because of what the "first man and woman" did then you are free not to accept it. When you discover a message that rings true with you that is your intuition encouraging you to continue seeking in that same direction. Trust your intuition. Intuition is real. It is what our spirit-imbued body gives us as a guide to discern what is true and what is false. You will "feel" it.

Answer 7

Actually, it's a good thing. You are seeking God because you want to and not because your mother tells you you should. it gives you a better foundation for an adult relationship with God. If you are worried about believing in something you do not know everything about- relax. No body on this earth will ever know everything there is to know about God. Take time everyday to read your bible and pray. Find a good church home where you can grow in faith. Fell free to email me if you have any questions.

Answer 8

I, like you, was Christian because I didn't know anything else. As I moved out into the world, I started asking questions. Christians don't like questions. I started studying other religions. I'm still studying. I do know that I, personally, do not want to follow Christianity any more. And I agree with you that one should not follow something that you don't know much about. This does not mean that I don't know anything about christianity. It means that what I found, I didn't like. Remember that Jesus was Jewish, not christian.
I do not follow satan. I do not believe that satan exists. I tend more toward the Maternal rather than Fraternal.

Answer 9

I was also born a christian, but was not sure of these things. Then as time went by, I realized my prayers were answered. Something which is not true, will be lifeless. But there is life in christianity, as Jesus said eternal life. Just as Jesus said, He would send the Holy Spirit, I received Him.Jesus said theses 2000 years back and it is still true. I knew that God existed and is there more than I think. So dont worry about your thinking, just cling to God. Since the evil one is also there, it is good , if you cling to God. He can save you unlike the other one who will lie to you about God and Jesus. So pray about it..

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Answer 10

The internet can be a wonderful place for information.... commit to spending a half an hour a night studying the religions you are interested in... You'll either find something that calls to you or you may find that nothing calls to you. Either way, it'll be your journey and only you will know when you have found the answer. Good luck and happy reading!!!

Answer 11

I consider myself religious, though not of a Christian religion, and I think it is a smart decision to refrain from choosing any one religion, or any at all, when you don't know enough about these things. Be openminded and curious about everything and try to maintain that openmindedness your whole life. Read books. Try new things. Work to be skilled at what you love to do. Most importantly, remember that religion is not all about finding answers, but about leading a life worth living.