so .. im not very expirience at this whole dating kissing any further kinda thing and i really dont know what to do or think or say or anything!
and im the kind of person to think and worry about it so much that i get to stressed and it just makes things worse .. i know your suppose to just "go with it"
but i dont get what that means .. what if i cant!?
help mee
please and thank youss
2007-05-22 18:20:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing to it because it's all natural.
When two ppl have a strong attraction to ea. other, nature takes it's course. You should be able to be relaxed w/ someone you are comfortable with. If you aren't, then perhaps you're not w/ the right person. This is what dating is about ... the road to discovering that special someone. Date the person, and in time, you will want to get close enough to to touch ea. other.
There's nothing wrong w/ taking your time. If the other person is sincere, they'll wait for you to warm up. If they don't, move on, because they weren't the right person in the first place.
2007-05-22 18:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll bet you worry about what time the sun will rise every morning. Quit worrying so much. When the time is right, it will come natural to you. Everyone has a first time. Everyone has been inexperienced before. It is not as big of a deal as you seem to want to make it. All you are doing is meeting people one on one instead, of in a group when you date. You still talk and have fun. The kissing part is just an extention of your feelings. I am sure that you have kissed your parents. Well, all you are changing is--instead of the cheek, it is the lip, and you give it a bit more intensity. Try kissing you mirror to practice.
Relax, it will all come to you in good time. There is no rush, and no practice required. No one is testing you.
2007-05-23 01:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand completely. I do the exact same thing all the time. Take a couple deep breaths and try not to think about the situation. Don't worry. It's your first kiss/date. You're not supposed to be perfect. Just relax and let what happens happens. Best of luck to you and don't worry! :-) It'll be fine.
2007-05-23 01:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by wenchiepirategirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep freaking out and making yourself a nervous wreck, your never gonna score. First things first "hello my name is _ _ _" and so on... just take it easy.
2007-05-23 01:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by honey buckets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself...you're going to be fine!
2007-05-23 01:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by `~,,..._+*-=^_^=-*+_...,,~` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋