i broke up with him because he was way overbearing and now he's thinking it's all his fault and he's a bit emotionally un-stable...help!
2007-05-22 17:11:30 · 31 answers · asked by stevethebeeve 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
just to clarify, i am a GIRL! therefore i am not gay talking about my ex-boyfriend. stevethebeeve is an inside joke between me and my friends.
2007-05-23 10:00:24 · update #1
Just tell him it will all be ok and that he will find someone speical that is perfect for him. Dont give him hope with you unless there is some but give him hope in general.
Tell him to go to church! It always helps me - not matter what you are like.
2007-05-22 17:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dear Steve, READ what you just said! You told us that you broke up with him because he was overbearing. If he thinks it's his fault, you obviously pointed out that it is his fault by saying what you just did. He is not a baby. Let him go. He will get over it. It sounds to me like you are not over him. Don't you dare give in to his emotional crap. If you take him back because you are afraid he is gonna do something stupid, then you are a bigger fool than I thought. Don't you dare take him back for that reason cause you are gonna be miserable. Don't answer the phone when he calls and he will get the hint. He is just seeking attention. Good luck!
2007-05-22 17:25:21 · answer #2 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who don't take personal responsibility for their own lives tend to take responsibility for the lives of others. That means you. Grow up! As if it's your concern if somebody is crying, and it's definitely not your concern to mind-read the alleged reason why.
Proverbs 14:10 Each heart knows its own bitterness, and no one else can share its joy.
There's no possible way that you could know what his life is like.
Proverbs 14:9 Fools mock at making amends for sin, but goodwill is found among the upright.
I'm not going to mock you if you want to try to make up for anything you've done, but make it simple. Just apologise.
2007-05-22 17:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by MiD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's a danger to himself, get him some professional help. If you think that danger is immediate, call the police. Otherwise, be assertive. Tell him you're not his therapist, you don't feel right acting as a therapist, and that it's best for both of you to not have contact with each other. Then hang up.
2007-05-22 17:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by Muffie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u gay people still look freaky to me, I don't think I will ever exept a gay person. It was just freaky reading your question, and I can still see others hear r still perplexed by you guys.
till the guy on the phone it will fit better with a woman, there is more places to chose from.
2007-05-22 17:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that in Iraq they are in worst condition than him
becauseThe Land Letter that was a letter sent to President George W. Bush by five evangelical Christian leaders on October 3, 2002 which outlined their theological support for a just war pre-emptive invasion of Iraq. The letter was written by Richard D. Land, president of the Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission of the Southern Baptist Convention. It was co-signed by Chuck Colson, founder of Prison Fellowship Ministries, Bill Bright, chairman of Campus Crusade for Christ, James Kennedy, president of Coral Ridge Ministries, and Carl D. Herbster, president of the American Association of Christian Schools.
2007-05-22 17:17:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he was overbearing and emotionally unstable, isn't it his fault? I mean of course it takes two but didn't you tell him why you broke it off?
2007-05-22 17:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by NoMoreLies! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing hang up and unplug your phone/turn it off. You aren't responsible for his happiness, contrary to what he is attempting to convince you of. Unless you like drama and it flatters your vanity that you hold someones elses happiness in the balance. Think about it.
2007-05-22 17:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by rabidkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it was his fault.
Are you willing to give him another chance, on hopes he'll change? Or are you ready to move on?
If you are willing to give him another chance, tell him so. If not, then sounds like you will need to make a very clean break here - no "we could be friends" crap.
If you are worried he will do something to himself, then call his parents and tell them you are concerned and why.
2007-05-22 17:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the 24 hour help line he needs to talk to a counselor, its 1-800-448-3000
2007-05-22 17:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋