i date wit other guy..my boyfren doesn know bout this..should i tell him or not??
2007-05-22 16:53:16 · 27 answers · asked by payin_rie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now that I found out... See ya!
2007-05-22 16:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by IndianaHoosier 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, but it seems obvious that you aren't ready for a relationship quite yet. The only thing you are doing by cheating on the person you love is hurting them. How would you feel if he was doing the same thing to you?
I was with my ex boyfriend for 7 years and I cheated on him... when I told him, he was so devastated... there is no way I would put someone through that again, and I wouldn't cheat on my boyfriend now for anything. If you have the urge to be with other people, you should break it off with your boyfriend and go have fun. Have fun without hurting someone else. Tell him you love him but you aren't ready to be a one man girl quite yet. Maybe you can still be friends.
2007-05-22 17:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by PocketTens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 choices:
1. Stop cheating and continue dating the boyfriend you claim to love.
2. Confess and tell you boyfriend you want an open relationship. This gives your boyfriend the opportuinity to break it off or to sleep with other women too - now, now, sauce for the goose...
3.Break it off with your boyfriend before he hears from someone else that you're cheating on him.
4. Spy on your boyfriend in case he's cheating on you. If he is you can carry on without guilt.
2007-05-22 17:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should tell him. What if these other guys you're sleeping with give you an std and then you give it to him. Plus thats just really wrong. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if he slept with a bunch of other girls behind your back. Tell him, he will probably break up with you but if he doesn't then stop cheating on him. Its so wrong.
2007-05-22 16:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to "play the field" and date other guys... don't be in a relationship... simple! You obviously have some self-esteem issues that you need to work on before a proper relationship with anyone can develop. Leave your boyfriend.
2007-05-22 16:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Dave F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the poor guy a favour and break it off with him. You can't really love someone whole heartedly if you cheat on them, for you would never have even thought about cheating let alone go out and cheat. Break it off with him and he can go out and find someone who would truly love him. Good luck to you.
2007-05-22 17:01:58 · answer #6 · answered by vidots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love this man then, why did you do what you did.
but if you are feeling that you want to come clean then may
you need to be honest with him. other wise, things will
not get any better, trust me the quilt will eat at you until you'do
what is right. and he should know from you. secret has a way
of getting out when you least expect it.
2007-05-22 17:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have a good trusting relationship then i would tell him and just add that you wanted to have a little fun before you get married that is if you two are getting married if not then i would not say anything just wait for the right time to tell him that is all.
2007-05-22 16:59:42 · answer #8 · answered by maria f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like you love him
and yes you should tell him right away
how would you feel if he was doing that?
how can you hurt the person you supposedly love in such a way
and you shouldnt be scared that he will dump you because it wont hurt you as much as you are hurting him.... you are so selfish..... a relationship is about the other person, not yourself
2007-05-22 16:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing if you're cheating on him then you don't love him because if you did, then the thought of another man touching you would disghust you. If you want to be with another man then you should end it with your bf. What you're doing to him isnt fair.
2007-05-22 16:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should develop some integrity. Do both guys a favor and quit seeing them until you get your head straight.
2007-05-22 16:56:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋