i really like this guy and i think he likes me too, well he use to say hi and bye to me all the time and talk to me alot and flirt with me a lot and stare at me a lot. i use to talk to him a little but not that much, i would usually just ignore him, but that was because im a really shy person. but anyways now he ignores me and doesnt even say hi or pay attention to me anymore, so my question is did he really like me or was he just playing games? wat do i do? i really like him but he doesnt talk to me anymore...honest answers thanks
2007-05-22 15:39:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-05-22 15:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh no~!
I think you lost your chance with him ;__;...because he probably think you're not interested in him, so now he has perhaps moved on. Omg...that sucks. I think he did like you, but seeing how you weren't paying attention to him...he must have assumed you don't like him.
I'm shy too, you know; but I wouldn't ignore the guy that I like as much as you like him. How about try to stop him at some point with the two of you and talk to him like...asking him if he had ever liked you or something like that.
Since you messed it up once and learned never to ignore your crush, how about try to be all over him a little more?
2007-05-22 15:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jum Jum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess. You two are teenagers. If that is the case, then you are both shy and like each other, but are confused as to how to break the ice. As a former teenager, I know when I was that age I would act rather goofy around girls I like. I would flirt with them, but was scared to death to ask one out out of fear of rejection.
There is a possibility that he may like someone new, but he may still like you, but he may feel like you don't like him back and he is starting to distance himself from you as a result. The best thing you can do is keep talking to him and be flirty with him. If he doesn't ask you out or doesn't show interest, move on and go to the next one that will..
2007-05-22 15:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably has moved on. If i liked a girl and she for the most part ignored me i would move on too. You should probably start talking to him. Saying hello to him and maybe just come out with it and be straight with him. I know your shy but are you willing to miss out on what might be something good.
Trust me, if he ever liked you he wont turn you away, unless he's dating someone else. He probably just thinks that you never liked him.
Go for it girl and Goodluck!
2007-05-22 15:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Its Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Be careful you're in a delicate situation here. From your words of him ignoring you, it may be that he likes someone else, or he's waiting for you to make a move. Girls though should never make the first move. That's my honest answer for you. No worries. KC
2007-05-22 15:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by kenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you start to say hi or start a convesation.
and then later on find out why he was doing this to you.
but i think he did like you its just he thought he was wasting his time because you kept on ignoreing him.
so jus try to talk to him
2007-05-22 15:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by bbygirlraerae 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a guy im gonna say he did like you but because of your shyness maybe he thinks your not interesed i think u need to let him no u do like him your just shy
2007-05-22 15:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just figured you dont like him, if you only talked to him a little. Give him nice "Hey, hows life been you look good" remark.
2007-05-22 15:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to me all the time... may be he did USED to like you, but NOW he doesnt get over him seriously that is the best advice i can give you!
2007-05-22 15:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first step would eb to talk to him
he probably lost interest when you ignored him
let him know your interested again
2007-05-22 15:43:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋