ok i really like this one guy and today i had to present this one power point today and before i presented he sat next to me(he knows that i like him) well this one chick went before me and she also likes him(grr)(yes i am a little obsessive) and well there were a few open seats left to sit in but when she was done i went in the front of the room and i swear to God that she ran there just to sit next to him... maybe to piss me off idk but i didnt know what to do...i didnt want to make my self look like a ***** in front of him cuz he already thinks i am weird... but i dont know what to do to make him notice me more and i dont know waht to do about the other person(no they are not going out) do u think you could help me out!!!???
2007-05-22 14:30:44 · 14 answers · asked by *blonde*star* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well this is coming from a guy but if he is anything like me (and all the other boys at our school) he would probably like to just talk with you and get to know you. this might sound a little straight forward but just talk to him. the first step in getting to know each other better is communication. but if somebody doesn't put the wheel in motion then he won't get to know you (who knows, maybe he's watching you form a distance). About the other girl, don't let her intimidate you, as long as there not going out then it's ok for you to "move-in" on him. idk how helpful i was, but i hope if anything i helped you a little
2007-05-22 14:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Johnbad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give him 1001 reasons why you're better than her lol. Maybe not but don't try too hard, as a guy I can say that scares us away if we have no interest in you. If he doesn't like you then he doesn't like you, there will probably be a cuter guy in the next grade. But let the girl flirt with him all she wants if he's interested then hes interested if he's not then he's not. Don't force anything or pull any "mean girls" stuff. Have you made contact with him? Try to find ways to be alone with him and let him know you're interested a little, not too much. Like when hes walking to his next class or if you see him and ask if he wants to grab a quick bite.
2007-05-22 21:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by nyczxlilray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant force some one to like you.
all you can do is show them how great you really are.
be confident and take things slow.
the good news is he chose to sit by you and that you remained calm in front of him when the other girl pissed you off.
dont let it get to you so much.... instead show him that you are much greater than this other girl.
and if he is too stupid to realize this, then he obviously isnt good enough for you.
be personable and always make sure you smell good (dont over do it with the purfume though) and that you look presentable (but dont over do it)
be just yourself and confident and do what you can to get him to like you so that he will ask you out
good luck
2007-05-22 21:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing something to the other girl is not an honorable thing to do. You need to just ask the guy out before she does. You need to make some sort of move.
2007-05-22 21:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well, you saw it coming! At the next power point presentation you give, they both "over there" will be like totally all into each other making out! =<)
2007-05-22 21:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get to know him without seeming weird or obsessive. Maybe things will work out for the better.
2007-05-22 21:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica H. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your best bet is go talk with him and tell him how you feel, because if you wait too long you might lose him to her. So go now and just talk with him and ask all kinds of questions and you answer everything he asks, too
2007-05-22 21:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act more like your normal stuff and be cool, You will be more attractive that way. And please don't make your obsession that obvious. Start talking to him as though you want to just be friends with him and then go from there.
2007-05-22 21:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Chivalrous Chubbu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk to him more but in a casual way or when your in a group and ask everyone the same question. u get to know him but not make it look awkard.
2007-05-22 21:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by nancy t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so check this out try talking to him. you know make small talk at first then try conecting with him on a deeper level then after you get to know him a little bit and he gets to know you more then try asking him out.
p.s. try to find somthing in common with him and talk to him about that then you might be a little more comfortable talking to him
2007-05-22 21:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋