he's punched me before last year,
hes cried like a baby each time i said i'd leave
hes hugged girls infront of me
hes laughed with girls and called me a ***** 3 times throughout this relationship
hes told me i was jealous that i dont have a best friend like he does to get advice from
hes said i just have my dad and my aunt to talk to about advice
the first day i moved in with him hes showed me my room and said if i felt like having sex to just go into his room across the hall
help me..what do i do
2007-05-22 13:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, your boyfriend is a jerk. And he doesn't deserve to have you, he should go be a loser on his own.
My advice is - break up with him, you deserve a hell of a lot better than that.
2007-05-22 14:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Into The Sunset 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GET AWAY FROM THIS ASSHOLE NOW!!! It's not the you don't deserve him, you don't deserve to be treated like that. No one does. And from the sounds of it, he definitely does not deserve you. Break up with him, move out and cut off all communications. Block his cell phone, block his email ... do everything that you can to stay away from him. There will be times that you will break and feel like you need to see him, you must fight those urges at all costs. There is no chance that he will ever change. If you ever take him back, things will probably be good for a very short period of time, but I guarantee you that he will go back to his woman beating ways. You cannot allow him to treat you like that one minute longer.
Just keep telling yourself that you are a beautiful woman, you are worthwhile and you deserve to be happy and to be with someone who will absolutely treasure you.
2007-05-22 21:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by TheFunniestGuyInPants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are reaching out for advice in this forum is a testiment that you know you are in a bad relationship. What you need is the self-confidence to pick up your stuff and LEAVE. You are in an abusive relationship and you should get out as soon as possible. I know it's difficult...I've been there. The longer you wait, the deeper the hole, the more difficult it is to leave. I also suggest you contact your local "switchboard" or the crisis center in your area (call 411) or 1-800-799-7233 (US domestic abuse hotline).
There is no reason for your boyfriend to treat you in this manner! YOU DESERVE BETTER!
Good luck!
2007-05-22 21:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by madmax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, if you new he was like this you should have never moved in with him. this guy is crazy, and you shouldnt deserve to be unhappy. all this time you could be with the right man. this man has jelousy issues, and is plan crazy. he is crzy, stay far away from him and find a man you truely love that wont hurt you, and you feel confident in. just leave him, and dont turn back ESPECIALLY if he touched you. And you can get advice from anyone you want.
2007-05-22 21:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Ive been in a relationship that i had no fun, but(no offense) that's horrible what hes done to you. He is the one who doesn't deserve you.
2007-05-22 21:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Because*you*were*home 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, Please leave and if you need a guy find a gentleman ! Do not settle for anyone less than a guy who treats you like a queen !Girls are precious and should be treated with respect ! Jesus loves you and so do I !
2007-05-22 21:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont deserve him, but only because it sounds like he doesnt deserve you. Sounds like you deserve someone better. Get out of that relationship.
2007-05-22 21:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one needs needs that kind of abuse sweetie....dont settle for less..
2007-05-22 20:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Lilmomma23223 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't deserve him! trust me.. break up with him and you'll be a lot happier.
2007-05-22 21:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by chrissy. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋