they usually expect me to get a's. im freaking out. and this was a 100 test exam. unless other people got worse grades than me, im dead.
2007-05-22 11:33:05 · 13 answers · asked by Adrienne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're going to be ok - I promise. They sound like good parents, so please believe that they love you unconditionally whether you make an A or a C. Of course, they want you to make good grades because they know that equates to a good college and possibly scholarships. They just care about you. I would sit them down and YOU control the conversation. Speak in a kind, remorseful tone and say "Mom and Dad, I have to tell you something and I know you're going to be disappointed. But before you tell me how you feel, please just know that I tried my hardest and I have learned my lesson. I will try harder next time and I'm sorry if I disappointed you." They will RESPECT you for telling them the truth and owning up to it. That's all parents ever want honey. You're fine.
2007-05-22 11:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First calm down. If you have been getting A's for a long time, it is understandable that you are quite upset, but it is not the end of the world. Even world leaders have a bad day once in awhile, or more than once in awhile right? If your parents place pressure on you to succeed and have high expectations have an explanation ready for them. Look at the test and determine what it is that you did not get right, if you have time try to determine the right answer. Or make a plan to visit With the teacher to seek help so you completely understand the material prior to moving on to the next section. Also, decide what other reasons you have for why this test might not have gone well-were you nervous, tired, distracted, or was this the one time you did not study the right stuff or maybe did not study as much as for prior tests. Having a plan for addressing what you got wrong and solving for the future, and being able to discuss this in a calm confident manner should impress your teacher as well as your parents. This is not the end of the world and you should not treat it this way-if you get A's the rest of the time, this is definitely an isolated incident. Learn from it and move on. Also, think about your expectations in the future, don't ruin your time in school being distressed over grades-take it seriously but try to find time for recreation as well.
2007-05-22 11:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents can't cut you some slack on this, then they have a problem...No one is perfect, that is an unrealistic expectation, to state the least. A 79 is usually a C+, isn't it? -Or even a B- for some.
I would be most satisfied if I asked my son whether he did his best or not, -if indeed, he felt he could have done better. If the answer was "no, it wasn't well covered material" I most certainly would understand that, or if it was just a random "falling down" on his part.
I hate to state this aloud, but here it comes: It's about loving your child - compassion - understanding - -empathy. It's NOT about them - and they shouldn't make you feel that it is.
You seem to be under this pressure from them, that can be very tough to deal with. If you feel you did you didn't do your best, tell them you'll try harder next time.
Goodluck dear...Believe me, life after school ISN'T all about your GPA...Living up to reasonable expectations is.
Grace
2007-05-22 11:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beleive me i've been in the same boat, i got a 62 on my spanish exam, so either go to your teacher and find a way to make up the difference so your overall grade doesn't suffer, like extra credit or something, then your parents will hopefully never know. Or just be confident and tell your parents that you studied really hard for this test, but it just wasn't what you were expecting, sorry.
hope i helped
2007-05-22 11:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This shouldn't be the end of the world... No one is perfect I think your allow some lee way as a child. But you have to tell the truth... No matter what happens this will just make you a better person in the long run.
2007-05-22 11:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by brittv83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them 79% (almost a B) is above average.... Youre doing well! One low test score is not a big deal, just dont get im the habit of it. The first C I got I was afraid to tell my parents, and they were very sympathetic because they knew I tried my hardest
2007-05-22 11:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by mydirtylittleself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be terrified of showing bad grades to my parents, but they always said that as long as I had tried my best it was OK. I tell my daughter the same thing and I really do think it is OK. I'm sure they will too.
2007-05-22 11:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by iluvturtles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-22 18:02:07 · answer #8 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a bad result.You cant be expected to get As all the time.Tell them this was worth a B better than a c.Good luck.
2007-05-22 17:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them it was a tough test, and you did the best you could. That everyone has an off day sometimes. Don't stress to much. Just do your best and you'll be fine.
2007-05-22 11:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Dog Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋