Im in danger of being put in a residental type placement
and I have trouble going to school
2007-05-22 11:27:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ask your parents to sit down with you and talk some things over. You should initiate this talk. Ask them to help you by making their expectations clear. Write down what they want from you. Being a teenager is hard. Figuring out who you are and who you are going to be some day is really hard. There is an overwhelming pressure on teens to plan and map out their whole lives before they finish high school. The truth is you haven't been exposed to much of adult life and it will be years before you really understand your self and what you want out of life. I know that playing the waiting to grow up thing is tough but you can do it. Tell you parents about the things that bother and trouble you they have been there and might be able to help and if anything it will help them understand what your going through. Remember that they are scared and they want whats best for you. Think things through before you act on them. Like every one is telling you trust is earned. Time and good behavior.
2007-05-22 11:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by cutie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What ever good or bad comes your way. Share it with your parents. Don't lie to them. The truth always comes out. If you tell them that you are going to do something do it! Talk to your parents about why you have trouble going to school. Then have your parents and you decide how to work out the wrinkles. Maybe your parents might have to go to school to help solve the problem. Help your parents around the house. Tell your parents how much you love them and appreciate them. Maybe some family counseling would help. Sometimes a person looking from the outside in. Can help more than those inside. There are counselors at school. Talk to one of them. God Bless You-another mom.
2007-05-22 11:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by lfahrne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Stop lying.
2. Go to school.
3. Obey the rules of the house.
4. Treat everyone with respect.
I've been telling you these things every day, but maybe it will help seeing it on the Internet. Over time you will earn our trust. By the way, I like the change in attitude this week. Keep up the good work.
Love,
Mom
2007-05-22 14:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, best thing would be to smarten up and start going to school. Be respectful of your parents, and show them that you want to try and gain back their trust.
2007-05-22 11:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop being dishonest. Observe all of your parents rules even when they are not around. Stay current in your schoolwork. In short. Alot of hard work
2007-05-22 11:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by steve M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to behave, do as your parents ask, respect your parents, and trust will eventually come back. It's earned, and it will not come overnight.
2007-05-22 11:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by minalerie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you turn a new leaf and a very transparent one at that, you might regain there trust.
2007-05-22 11:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Bantree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whenever i get in trouble with my parents to show them that im sorry for what i did and im sorry that i hurt they're trust i write an essay on what they want me to learn out of it and why wat i did was wrong. Then you have to show them that your truely sorry but normally my essay thing works all the time but then youjust have to be good for like a couple weeks
good luck!
p.s. the essay thing works everytime
casey o0x
2007-05-22 11:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by Casey 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. It will take time. Try to do good for yourself first, then worry about your parents. Do well for yourself.
2007-05-22 11:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by TennesseeGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get ur stuff straight and stop doing unnecessary things
2007-05-22 11:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by bsy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋