whats everyones take on Cubic Zirconia for engagement rings?

Answer 1

You don't have to insure it. If you lose it, you're not broken hearted. As long as you aren't trying to fool the fiance.

Answer 2

It depends on the girl. Personally, I don't like diamonds. Diamonds have only been the traditional engagement stone for about fifty years or so. Others like rubies, sapphires and emeralds are just as nice, and more unique. I think that if in a nice setting, a zirconia is a good idea. Just try to get a ring that matches her personality.

Answer 3

If I had the choice between CZ and a teeny diamond, I'd go for the diamond. You are going to spend the same $$ on a realistic looking CZ as you would on a diamond chip.

You can get a traditional engagement ring, not a big one by any means but a classy, beautiful ring, for under $600. Sorry to say, but if you can't afford $600, how the heck do you plan on supporting a wife and family?

I compromised platinum for white gold to get the 3c ring I wanted in our price range -- fiance didn't think I'd go for it but it didn't make a difference to me. TALK TO HER about it. See what she wants. You never know.

Just don't ask her in a way that she feels obliged to answer that a CZ is ok when she really doesn't want it. Maybe say, "so and so got a CZ ring for his girlfriend," and see how she reacts.

Please dont break her heart by letting her expect a diamond and ending up with a fake. It's just wrong to do. She's worth the real-deal.

Answer 4

My fiance and I picked out our rings together, but we have also been together for 8 1/2 years and have done everything together. Our wedding is in 3 months and we've decided to go with a cubic zirconium for the wedding and then later on put the diamond in it when we can afford it, it's not like anyone other than the two of you would know that it's not real. If nothing else than maybe you could ask one of her friends to bring the subject up and she how she feels about, and be discreet about asking her, so she won't know what's going on. Good Luck

Answer 5

In my opinion, Diamonds are nice but unnecessary. If you cannot afford a Diamond, Cubic Zirconias look a lot like them. They look exactly like Diamonds to me. Plus, you can get a nicer looking ring for a lot less money. Just don't get one that is HUGE, then everyone will know it is fake. I would still get a ring with Gold, White Gold, or Platinum. Sterling Silver is OK too. Fake metals could turn fingers green. Good luck.

Answer 6

I think its a good idea if you two are doing it so you can afford other important things, like a wedding, honeymoon, home, a child etc.....The woman should know about it though, either before hand, or he should tell her when he gives it to her and explain that he wanted to get her something beautiful but that you two want more important things too (above mentioned things) Its also a good thing to ,someday for a special anniversary or birthday or christmas, to buy her the real diamond as a symbol of renewing your desire to be with her forever, and to show how far you two have come. It would be a beautiful milestone for her to cherish your past (the first ring) and the present and future (the new ring). Just as long as the man isnt doing it to be cheap, and has money earmarked for more important things, like their life together.

Answer 7

I'm not materialistic but I wouldn't go cubic zircona unless it is an accent to a real stone. She will probably think is a real diamond and it'll be awkward telling her its fake.

If you don't have money for a real diamond consider buying a gemstone that has a special meaning. If purple is her favorite color get her a tanzanite, if your fav college team is the Longhorns get a citrine, perhaps her birthstone? You can get lab created for pretty cheap and if you must put zirconia around it. Some girls like me would rather have a gemstone anyway.

Answer 8

I realize this will sound materialistic, but I think a diamond is the way to go. An engagement ring is a symbol of everlasting love, and since diamonds are (or one of) the most durable materials on earth, it represents eternity. A CZ was crafted in a lab...not classy. I do agree with the gemstone if your lady is open to it, the problem is (and this may be nitpicky) is that gemstones of a certain color do not go with every outfit, whereas diamonds are clear. I also agree with the idea of using white gold instead of platinum. A good website is bluenile.com for rings, you have a number of search criteria to choose from. If you are really concerned about what she is going to think about the CZ, it's probably best to go with a diamond. Another option is to splurge on platinum, and have it carved with something intricate to propose to her with. You could always save the diamonds for a channel wedding band.

Answer 9

because i tend to lose things quite often my hubby and i came to an agreement that from now on all things diamond - won't be! lol jewellery will consist of ziamonds, or cubic zirc. but still real gold!
i still think if you are choosing an engagement ring and you want a diamond, it should be a diamond! it doesn't have to be a huge diamond but it should be a real stone! having said that, engagement rings can be sapphires, rubies, all different precious stones make beautiful engagement rings!
have fun making your choice and she'll love it just because its from you!

Answer 10

Sorry, but I think I need to call the Tacky Police on this one. But I understand budgetary restrictions. Have you considered maybe looking at different stones? What's your fiancee's birthstone? Or favorite color? There are beautiful semiprecious stones like aquamarine, peridot or garnet that have lovely color and depth that are true gemstones at a fraction of a diamond's cost. Turn your focus instead upon a unique setting. It doesn't have to be platinum; white gold is a less pricey option that has a similar look. Look for antique rings with unique vintage settings at estate sales or even online. There are beautiful vintage rings that use styles like Edwardian or Art Deco that frame the stones more artfully and uniquely than any solitaire setting.

Answer 11

I have a beautiful CZ rock on my hand right now =] My fiance is in the military, and I picked out my ring myself. He thought I was nuts for picking out CZ, but I explained to him how much money we would be saving. There's nothing wrong with having CZ as an engagemen ring! =]