I have been seeing someone for a couple months and it started out as friends and somehwere moved to being lovers last weekend she told me she was falling in love with me and then this past weekend we had a fight and she didnt talk to me for a couple days and then when she called me she only wants to be friends. Whats a guy supposed to in a situation like this??
2007-05-22 10:26:44 · 16 answers · asked by cycledrus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might be scared of her feelings and getting hurt. Maybe you need to tell her how you feel and assure her that you care and love her too or you just want to be friends. I mean, I'm not sure what's wrong with her, it's just a guess. The only way to find out is to talk with her about it. If she ignores you too long, let it go and move on. She could have some issues you don't want in your life.
2007-05-22 10:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all when she told you she was falling in love with you did you say it back or did you just brush it off because if you really had nothing to say about she most have felt embarrassed and stupid at the same time, thinking you feel nothing for her and it upset her, depending on the nature of the fight you had it might have been her trying to reach out to you and waiting for you to prove to her you care for her and you didn't which made her realize that your friendship you had might have been ruined by her expressing herself to you so she would like to go back to the way things were uncomplicated. You really need to review all the facts and talk to her outside the comfort of your homes and on neutral territory then take it from there.
2007-05-22 17:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long you guys were friends before the dating but she is obviously confused or realized that she has another interest or someone else had a greater interest in her. You should just leave it alone and chill out, she doesn't need to be chased. She will call you though.
2007-05-22 17:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by shajenkins86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have gone into a self-protective mode. Maybe she interpreted something in the fight as you not caring for her the way she cares for you. Look beyond the words to the meaning. She's running scared. If you want her, don't let her run.
2007-05-22 17:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: What was the fight over? That would determine what the answer would be. If you like her; try to talk it out. If she is being childish and doesn't want to compromise - move on.
2007-05-22 17:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must have been a pretty bad fight. Just say ok, we can be friends, and move on to someone else. Let her go.
2007-05-22 17:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by J Doe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably jus confused right now, jus say ok and treat her like friend, start seeing other girls, if she decides she wants 2 B more than friends then let her come back around.
2007-05-22 17:32:02 · answer #7 · answered by Dot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Forget her!!! Shes definately not worth it if she acts like that over one fight!! When its real it takes so so much more to mess up a relationship! Best of luck!=)
2007-05-22 17:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by **JaeAnswers! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem...she made herself perfectly clear, she has decided that she only wants to be friends with you and not pursue a relationship, obviously she knows for herself that it won't work out.
2007-05-22 17:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go date another girl.
2007-05-22 17:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋