i think im depressed?

Question

ok i think i am depressed i cry alot for o reason ad i never feel *up to* doing my favorite things and i go from bn happy to be *down* lie all of a sudden but when i try to tell my mom she just tells me to sto ptrying to find things wrong wih me and to stop acting like a hypocondiact wat do i do?

i DO NOT use drugs or drink i just thought i would make that clear

Answer 1

I think you should go back with David, no matter what your parents say. Do this and you will feel normal very quickly.

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Answer 2

You may be depressed. But first, check things like your diet. Do you drink enough liquids? Eat plenty of veggies? Cut soda from your drinking habits. Second, how are you sleeping? Third, are you on any medication? some medicines do cause depression. Now as for your mom, she is having an all to common reaction. She thinks you can just get over it. It is not that easy. And it won't be easy to convince your mom that it is a difficult thing to deal with. First step is seeing a doctor, even a general practitioner MD, and tell them how you are feeling. Then they might beable to help you find a course of treatment. Don't let others invalidate your felings. No matter how irrational or trivial it might seem to them. What you are feeling is real and relevant and important to you and if they care and sincerely want to help, they should stop talking and actually listen.

Answer 3

Sounds like your young, not that I'm giving these an excuse, but when your young these things called hormones can do this stuff to you. All us girls go through this, maybe some more intensly than others. I don't know what if anything at this age you can do medically for it.
If your not depressed about something to be acting this way, and you just don't feel like doing stuff, cause you just don't feel like it...and no other reason (s), then you Ms. Country have to decide if you want to let this get the best of you, or if your going to pick yourself up by your boots and get a move on. You can wollow around untill you snap out of it, but who knows how much longer that might be....so you've got to try, so try. I'm not saying go be the life of the party ha, ha, ha happy happy happy...just don't let what I think might be a hormonal thing right now get the best of you.

I don't know how old you are you must have acess to the net otherwise you couldn't be on here. Go on Google or one of those sites and type in something like female then your age then hormones. Something like that, see what they say. Or even female teenager hormones.
Look up, you'll get through it, just don't be so miserable to yourself gettin through it is all. Hang in there.

Answer 4

I don't know how old you are, but it could just be a phase where the hormones are kicking in and there is pressure from exams and parents seem oppressive although it is likely they are only being protective.

Hopefully you've got friends the same age you can share this with and moan together and laugh together about all the various similar experiences.

If school work or other things are creating pressure,speak to your parents/ teachers/ friends (those that you decide are appropriate for the particular issue) to help you out. Sometimes just talking about a thing puts it in perspective.

Whatever age you are, this too will pass. I know it is hard, but try not to take things personally and do your best to enjoy the good times that are happening - don't let them pass you by.

Answer 5

two answers: either you are experiencing some sort of emotional disturbance right now OR you may simply have hormone problems. i went through the same thing. i suggest first checking with an MD. a least you'll feel a lot better mentally knowing you took some control over the problem (and it may be a simple treatment!). if it is more likely you are suffering from depression or other related mental distress, then you can tackle it knowing you exhausted the other possibles culprits first. talk to a school counselor (i'm guessing you're a student?). they can help direct you to the help you need if your folks aren't taking you seriously. best of luck either way! you'll get through it!

Answer 6

God loves you, and you are precious to Him. Jesus died on the Cross to save us from sin and qualifies us to Heaven. Just come to Him with gunuine repentance and faith, and you will become a child of God. Your eternal desiny will be in Heaven, wonderful beyond descriptions. This life is short and uncertain. Never, never, miss Heaven for anything in this world. Besides, Jesus can give you a new life of hope, peace and meaning. And you will not be living an empty life. My best wishes for happiness and Heaven!

Answer 7

Well, I was depressed for like 2 months over school vacation and i was having a hard time. Try to play with ur freinds do something with the people you love. It hopefully will seek you out. Try to stay active also.

Answer 8

Stop feeling so sorry for yourself, and think about the people that really have it hard, people in wheelchairs, mentally challenged, oh yeah did I forget to mention our Soldiers over in Iraq, kicking *** and taking names, weeding out the terrorists never knowing when an IED is gonna hit or when they are going to have to open fire?? GET OVER IT.

Answer 9

I'm a country mom, who has these kind of issues in my own family. Although your mom is dissapoting you, she may indeed feel the same way. My best advice to you is to go to your favorite teacher, or your school psychologist, and tell them how you feel. Please fill them in on your recent lies, you need to be honest to get the right help.

Answer 10

Well if your partying as in using any drugs, that causes mood swings, especailly stimulant drugs.. they leave you feeling unsure about things and not wanting to do things you liked ..and they make u cry for no reason... [the drug come downs]

Answer 11

maybe that MSG food additive is depressing you. Suggest you get all the MSG out of your food and drink. If you don't know what MSG is, then just eat a strict vegetarian diet for a few months and see if you feel better.