He's going out with someone else but they don't really do anything since we're in middle school, they just talk to each other all the time, what should I do? Should I just suck it up? Or try to break them up? Or just wait till they (hopefully) break up? Please help me.
2007-05-22 09:44:02 · 34 answers · asked by bianca 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave them both alone and get on with your school work. Find someone else if you just have to have a boyfriend at your age-In actuality all of you are too young to be considering being involved as boyfriend/girlfriend.
2007-05-22 09:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by Country girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your picture is so pretty and I bet you are a pretty and smart girl.. Why would you want to break someone else up? I bet you can get a lot of guys if you would stop thinking of breaking these two. Why don't you wait till you meet someone that is interested in just you.. The day will come, it comes for everyone, don't rush into something that you will regret later on.
Leave this couple alone, for how would you like it if someone did to you what you are planning on doing to them.
Life sometimes seems unfair...but if you do good and are Honorable in all your doings, you will win at the end.
God Bless
2007-05-22 09:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already spoken for theres' not much you can do.
If you try to break them up , you'll have a repuatation as a ***** or homewrecker...
they could have more between them than meets the eye, especially if they talk all the time...
It's best to move on, and just become friends with that person....
if things dont work out wiht the other girl, and you are such strong friends by then...maybe a relationship could develop..
just be there for him, and dont worry too much if you're with him or not.
2007-05-22 09:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not try to break them up. You can't help you feelings but you need to accept that he is with someone else. Stay focused on yourself and if it is ment to be you will end up with him. Just try to be his friend for now without the hopes o something more. Things will work out Spend time with your good friends too That always helps.
2007-05-22 09:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you could live with yourself after doing these options. Do you want to be a home wrecker and break off relationships with others and be considered a *****? Or would you rather not be sloppy seconds and find somebody else that likes you for you and you would be considered a laid back kinda girl? The choice is yours...
2007-05-22 09:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't try to break them up... let this guy "just talk" with his gal. So what if all they do is talk? Just be his friend, and who knows? It might not work out for them, but that's something they'll need to decide. And if that happens and you're there for him, maybe he'll be yours then.
Be nice. If the reverse were true, wouldn't you want the other girl to just let you and him be rather than break you guys up?
Trust me... nice is better.
2007-05-22 09:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they 'don't really do anything' then what's the point of you going out with him since you're in middle school too?
don't be a relationship wrecker and try to break them up. just suck it up and wait, if you must.
2007-05-22 09:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by yukidomari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't break them up. The guy will notice that and may not like that. I would wate for them to break up, in the mean time, keep looking. Plus, if you broke them up, that could really stir the pot at school, people will start to hear rumors of ya. Trust me, wate for them to break up and look elsewhere. Hope this helps.
Wee Man.
2007-05-22 09:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by boychuka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have it right. Suck it up. Us girls need to stick together. Hey, you never know, it is middle school and he may just break up with her on his own and not because of you. Than you can go for it unless there is someone else you'll like better!
Good luck girl
2007-05-22 09:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by CARM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes a taken man why do u feal the need to be a home wrecker like someone else and later when they break up you can get with him u only have to wait a month or two
2007-05-22 09:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋