i m talking to this19 year old in yahoo messenger if he isnt lying if even he is a he. he said he lives in idonesia. also he told me that he owned a house there? he told me he had a car and a motorcyle. but he is awfully nice. i was smiling the whole time when i was chatting with him. we chatted for like 2 hours. i didnt tell him where i lived or i didnt sent a pic. he did ask me when he was gonna see a pic. of me? idk what to do. i was like how did u get the money to do such things. most 19 year olds cant afford a house. but i like him a lot he is sooooo nice!
PLEASE HELP!!!! also can u tell me some suspicous behaviours or how i know he is lying?
2007-05-22 09:40:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh sorry i forgot to tell how old i was i m 12 going on 13 i love older boys not like creepy old though
2007-05-22 09:47:37 · update #1
If you have a gut feeling that something is wrong, Then listen to yourself!! Most 19 year olds living in indonesia live with their family, In a house that has upward from 3 to 4 generations under the same roof..Don't tell him where you live or send a picture to him!! And DO NOT accept a trip out to see him oversea's or meet with him anywhere in private!! He could be an on line sexual predator trying to gain your confidence. He seems to want you to be impressed with him pretty badly, That is a warning sign to me right there!!
If you do go see him oversea's, there are a number of things that can happen to you, All without the support of your friends or family. You can be raped and murdered . There is a thriving white slavery market in other countries around the world.( Including indonesia.) Or kidnapped and held for hostage.. Not everyone on line is as nice as they pretend to be, Or even be who they say they are.. USE EXTREME CAUTION!!!! Best of luck..
2007-05-22 10:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK didn't read passed first sentence 19 on line not good sweaty really not good and now i read the rest and if he can afford all that very suspicious i don't think u should talk to him anymore but if u do don't give any info out to him not even a pic OK and be careful with how u talk to on line plz be safe sweaty.
Suspicious behaviours:
1 ask were u live alot insists on finding out
2 asks for a pic of u with or with out it
3 watch carefuly his typing if he seems to forget things alot ur introuble.
4 ask him questions bout his job if it takes him awhile to answer he lies
that is all the things that come to mind right now and good luck my dear.
2007-05-22 09:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by fearful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he is lying because he is saying things that are not likely to be true. This kid is more likely to be some 65 year old man in Florida than a kid in Indonesia. Wnen they ask for a picture right way is a sure sign.
2007-05-22 09:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, you didn't mention how old you are. If you are much younger, it is weird that he wants a picture of you.
When I chat with people, I don't care to see how they look like. Most of my good online friends, I've only seen their pictures MUCH later after we started talking (some of them it's almost a year after we started talking). It is a bit weird that he asks for your picture. You could send it if you want to, but be careful. Do not give out too much information about yourself. :)
2007-05-22 09:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by ButterflyAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is in 19 and lives in idonesia his house is made of mud and sticks his car is an old donkey and his motorcycle is a moeped, Odds are he is a liar and he doesnt live in idonesia he is probably not 19 he may own a house due to the fact he is in his 40s and they act nice to trick you.
2007-05-22 09:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldn't take any chances. i would try to find out if hes lying by like asking him what he does to get such money and if he doesn't tell u than don't trust him and if u really like this guy and u think u can trust, than meet him frist before u tell him anything.
2007-05-22 09:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! this guy really souNDs like a great catch, he's nice , he's young, and he seems to be rich but just remember one thing don't give too much info of yourself 1st make sure he IS a guy, 2nd don't agree to meet him nowhere alone 3rd ask him lots of ?S about his family cuz remember another thing If he sounds too good to be true he probably isn't good luck girl:)*
2007-05-22 09:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a stackler? and always be suspicious of online people. you don't know what they are really like. although, i met my my husband online. but the majority of online people are fake. so, be very very careful and don't give out any personal info until you have known this person a long long long long time
2007-05-22 09:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't read beyond the second sentence.
Nineteen year old + Possible male = perv.
2007-05-22 09:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-05-22 09:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by dane d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋